Im afraid it will mess things up between us. He hardly knows me . I want to save him the grief of knowing. What do you think ?
2006-07-25 14:47:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unless you're going to be scarred for life if you don't tell him, I don't see a reason to.
Would you want to know? I wouldn't. It could only hurt him. If for some reason he did find out later, I think he'd understand why you kept it from him.
2006-07-25 14:50:27 · answer #1 · answered by answerator 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since it was not planned and a miscarriage, and you don't have a strong relationship with him - I don't believe it's necessary to say anything. It's not that you're hiding anything - it's just that there is nothing gained or lost by saying anything. I would definitely go my dr and get on something that will work better for you so it doesn't happen again. The only thing that would change my mind is if you want him to be proactive in the birth control area - then to convince him - you could tell him - just so he can participate 50% in prevention.
2006-07-25 21:53:48 · answer #2 · answered by longhats 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most definatly. If he knew you were pregnant then finds out your not, you are thrown into the entrapping girl catagory and will be dumped like yesterdays garbage. If you will hide the truth on something like being pregnant or not, what else will you with hold from him? Tell him as soon as possible.
2006-07-25 21:59:51 · answer #3 · answered by JFra472449 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really see the point in telling him sense you miscarried. You really dodged a huge bullet but next time you might not be so lucky. for you own sake try not to have sex with guys who barely know you.
2006-07-25 21:53:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babygirl if he hardly knows you yall should not be having unprotected sex anyway. By the way yes you should tell him!
2006-07-25 22:01:59 · answer #5 · answered by pepperspray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the Truth for if it gets out down the line somehow it might turn out extremely bad for keeping that secret from him
2006-07-25 21:57:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go a head an tell him. its best to not keep secrets because this could blow up later and ruin the relationship.
2006-07-25 21:49:52 · answer #7 · answered by Lexi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you got pregnate and you hardly new him.....i don't no....... i think if you guys did it that fast you might not want to start a relationship with him, i would leave him, those kind of relationships are slim to none if you want something real
2006-07-25 21:54:55 · answer #8 · answered by tiffiny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he should know. it was his too. i think he has a right to know..from you. what if he found out another way? thats not right. couples shouldn't keep big secrets like from each other.
2006-07-25 21:51:31 · answer #9 · answered by chloë 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep lookin you may find it
2006-07-25 22:05:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋