How do you kiss?

Question

My boyfriend wants me to kiss him, I really want to but I'm nervous, shy, and scaried! He is being nice about it, he is not pressuring me or anything like that! But I don't know how to kiss, what if I mess up or something like that? What if I mess up so bad he dumps me? HELP!!!!!!!!!! Just tell me how to kiss please!!!!!!

Answer 1

Relax. Believe me, it will come naturally and it's fun.
Here are some tips:

It's best to kiss with your heads off-set at an angle.
Always try to swallow before you kiss. Moist, not wet.
Get your hands in on the action. Caress his face, hold his neck and pull him to you.
Suck and nibble the lips in between the tongue-probing.
Every now and then, detour away from the lips, elsewhere on the face.
Don't dominate the kisses. You are kissing together.

Stop in time. Make him want to come back for more.

Answer 2

Hes not going to dump you if you mess up lol.... there is no way to learn how to kiss other than to do it. Its something that you just do when put in the situation, and its something you can learn from doing. Just mimic the things he does. When it happens it will be magical if the feelings are there whether you have experiance or not! Dont be nervous, just have fun!
Good Luck

Answer 3

First eat a jolly rancher, then moisten your lips slightly and pucker up. For your first kiss just kiss him like you would kiss your mother on the cheek. After you get the first one out of the way. The other kisses should be easy. You dont have to open your mouth or do anything with you tongue. Save that for High School and College. Dont worry, believe it or not you the female are in control. ;)

Answer 4

if he dumps you because of the way you kiss then you're better off anyway. Don't think so much about it that you'll psych yourself out. Itll happen naturally. You'll both discover your preferences when it comes to kissing and you'll understand what he likes, and how you like to be kissed. If you mess up the first time, then it gives you an opportunity to practice :). Just don't be afraid to pull some moves on him and go for it! good luck

Answer 5

That is so cute. Ok, he isn't goingto dump you for that. If you get like that over a small kiss, you will be insecure about everything in your relationship. Just kiss him. There is no technique, just kiss him. Do what you feel and you will see how wonderful it is. You will never know till you do it. Dont be shy either.

Answer 6

You know what, you're not going to be a great kisser from the start so relax. He's probably not that great yet either.

Here's the deal. Soft and slow is better than hard and fast. You cannot really mess it up. Tongues are good but don't shove it down his throat. Explore his tongue and mouth slowly with yours.

I guarantee you if you go slow, he'll think you are fantastic.

Answer 7

i know u feel like u cant do it what if u mess up
but thats not true it's just ur imagination gone wild
ur just a lil scared cuz ur young and its ur first time
u just have to relax about it and feel comftroubly look into eachothers eye and slowly lean over and kiss them on the lips
(i close my eyes when i make out it's mmore interesting)
and just open ur mouth a lil and gently move ur toungh inside his mouth and he'll move his and u'll end up kissing
it's really easy and so so so so fun
lol
~have fun,best wishes ♥

Answer 8

GO FOR IT its natural to be nervous nerver let anyone talk you into anything you dont want to or feel comfortable with. but thats part of the fun is the butterflys in your stomach beleive me its a feeling so great someday you would give anything to have again. everone has to have a first kiss and if it feels right you will know deep inside.. so follow your heart and the rest will take care of itself !!!!!

Answer 9

Well, i always thought of that as well..but it just comes to u naturally..dont be a slob and be all over his face..just right smack on the lips...if its not a peck on the lips and its more, usually the guy will suck on ur upper lip and u'll be sucking on his bottom lip or vice versa...and if its deeper than that and theres tongue action invovled...well if this is ur first kiss..dont let any tongue action be involved..good luck n have fun =)

Answer 10

well lets put it this way.. youve got two choices here.

1. Kiss him as ackwardly as everyones fist kiss is. and over time learn to kiss better, and have a good memory to look back on years from now or..

2. Dont kiss him, save your embarrasment and then when the next guy comes dont kiss him either because your too embarrased and then when the next guy comes dont kiss him because your too embarrassed and then when the next guy comes...



.. you choice :)