well to begin i been with my boyfriend for 10 months.. but it seems that now we start arguing for about everything.. we have serious arguments all the time but we always end up with eachother..what should i do?u think i should break up?
2006-07-25 14:32:57 · 15 answers · asked by crazyfemale 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well do you and your boyfriend hav any good times? Because if all you guys do is fight all the time then thats not a relationship its just two friends always bitching with eachother and you guys have serious arguments its not worth it what you two need to do is sit down with eachother and have a nice talk and decide whats good for your relationship. Also who starts the fights and are they about stupid things? is what you need to do. Hopefully you'll take my advice!!! GOOD LUCK!:)
2006-07-25 14:45:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need some real time apart - like a month - without talking or seeing each other to think through why you argue so much. It's not healthy in a good relationship - you should be able to resolve issues calmly.
2006-07-25 21:34:55 · answer #2 · answered by mumsy_of_two 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depend on what issue you argue for. you know even couple marry over 30 years (like my parents) they do always have arguments too. on every little issue, so it is not the point to judge whether should or not to break up. :) focus on the nature of the issue u both argue for.
2006-07-25 21:40:41 · answer #3 · answered by May C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was just one of those things, or it's the real thing and to know which one, do this: prove whether or not it's true that absence makes the heart grow fonder. Cool the relationship for a couple of months, then look back and see if the flame still burns.
2006-07-25 21:35:21 · answer #4 · answered by Tad Dubious 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I am not sur of your age...but by the sounds of it you will not have a happy future. I know it is nice to have a bf and all but being happy is what is important. Live your life before you get attatched there is a fish in the sea for every one. I thought for 18 years i was with mine...but after finding the man i am with now i know i was NOT happy all these years. I just wanted someone by my side...
2006-07-25 21:36:37 · answer #5 · answered by armiki66 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well congratz on making it 10 months..tomorrow is my 10 month annv. so im excited =)..but enough about me..back to u..this happens with me all the time...we get into a lot of arguments...but we both agreed to try and avoid stupid fights...so we're working together on things..thats how u gotta handle it...just make sure u both are on the same page and dont argue about stupid things..its a waste of breath
2006-07-25 21:38:03 · answer #6 · answered by r_thomas129 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try to be away from each other for a while to see things more clearly. You both need some space before going back together. Sometimes you just can't really see things clearly enough when you're too close to each other. Also talk to your friends who know him and try to learn from them how they see your boyfriend. Their opinions can help you. Good luck!
2006-07-25 21:36:04 · answer #7 · answered by prudence z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no don't do that arguments make relationships more interesting just don't worry bout it....maybe you should tell him that you don't like when yall argue and ask him is there a way that yall can settle your diffs without arguing
2006-07-25 21:36:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just break before it's to late. When you married to him it probably get worse
2006-07-25 21:36:23 · answer #9 · answered by arveen paria arasuk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love him, you need to figure out what triggures the fights, if its dumb stuff, you'll need to work on it. if its serious, you need to rethink everything and see if its anything thats fixable
2006-07-25 21:35:05 · answer #10 · answered by mickey g 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋