My ex ask's me if he can call I say no he still ask's and his father im me and asked if he im me I say yes and he hasen't im me how can I tell in a good way to leave me alone!!!!!
2006-07-25 14:20:55 · 37 answers · asked by ♥~*Reyna~*♥ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You really cant forget someone unless you have amnesia, Alzheimer's or dementia, but what you can start doing is thinking of him less until one day you realize that you hardly ever think about him.
It is a process ... but you should take some step to help you get over him and to stop thinking about him as often as you do now.
First, think of all the negative things and experiences that you had while you were with him
Second, every time that you catch yourself thinking
about him say to yourself "cancel" and start thinking about something else, but if he keeps on creeping up on your thougths then just start thinking at that moment about the moments that he
hurt you emotionally. This should help you a little.
2006-07-25 14:43:12 · answer #1 · answered by fal`lus 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This can be a difficult situation. I recommend cutting all ties to this person. The relationship you to have shared is now over. The person in question is having a difficult time realizing that perhaps he/she is no longer attractive to you, They will more often than not continue to seek some sort of validation that there is hope left for the relationship to continue. By severing all ties, the message will be clear, that he/she needs to move on and find a new partner. Unbinding ties
2006-07-25 14:28:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time to heal and get over the pain, but you will never forget.
He needs to give you space and leave you alone. Tell him he is to leave you alone. Let his father know you told him and tell his father he is not to try to be a go between. Let them know if he does not stop trying to contact you that you will consider it harrassment and will treat it as such.
Some people interpret you trying to say "no" nicely as you not really not meaning it.
2006-07-25 14:22:56 · answer #3 · answered by Calina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm moving on, And if I feel the need to cry, it will not be for the heart ache you've made, but for not we might have, not for the regrets that I have nor of the anger that I felt, but I will cry because of the love that I never able to share, with the one guy I fell for. I will cry for the love that was lost, and not for the girl who left.
I am moving on. I'll try to wake up in the morning and smile and think not of why i left, but that once i stayed. No, don't try to reason with me, this is too much...I will try not to think of you, but when I wake up in the morning I ask myself if somehow you are also awake. I have my own life to lead and my own life to think of.
No, I won't even think of you while I'm eating my breakfast wondering if you're doing the same thing, because sooner or later I know you will. No, never again will I go to the comfort room and lock myself in, just to have some privacy to sadly think of you, cry or do some foolish things because of you.
I've had enough. I'll try to hold back the tears when I think of you. I'll just try to smile. And no, never will I again think of you last, when I go to sleep. Sleep is my only rest, so please don't plague me in my dreams.
I will give my affections to any girl who is need of it, but not my heart because I still am trying to get it back from you. I will give her the love that you never wanted, the kiss that I so longed to give you and the words that once was yours. Worthy or not worthy of it, at least she's here, you're not.
I am moving on, hoping that the next thing would be letting go.give him this hey good luck to
2006-07-25 14:46:45 · answer #4 · answered by shyshyunmee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you cant "forget him " as for getting him to leave you alone just tell him to go away
2006-07-25 14:25:00 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop thinking about him and tell him u need some space and that this experience is good for both of u because u get the chance to meet other people... kick him out!!!!
2006-07-25 14:26:20 · answer #6 · answered by wepaparati 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another Man
2006-07-25 14:22:44 · answer #7 · answered by boxing_fan_4_wlad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) outta site outta mind
2) the best way to get over an old man is to get under a new one
2006-07-25 14:23:21 · answer #8 · answered by dream_star16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe just dont answer calls and stuff for awhile. Tell him you need to think about things for awhile. you'll call when your ready.
2006-07-25 14:25:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just move on and flirt as much as u can. but also tell ur ex that u dont have feelings for him anymore
2006-07-25 14:23:13 · answer #10 · answered by senor_brendon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋