Situation is: YOU BROKE UP WITH HER a year ago for self-issues you needed to fix. But now you try to get back to her and she admits she still loves you but she avoids you and even hides from you.. you were wondering why she lost too much weight.. then you heard she has cancer.. you wanna be there for her because you really love her but she avoids you and you can see her very miserable.. you can't stand it but she tells you to go away.. what would you do?
2006-07-25 14:20:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A friend of mine had cancer, and, unfortunately, died from it.
Push the care envelope as close as you can without disrespecting her wishes. Let her know that you're there. Do your best to help her, but don't push it. It's her life and her call. Let everything play out as it should.
She may eventually need more help, and you will be right there when she asks for it. Keep in mind, that it's not a walk in the park to help people who have cancer or severe illness.
Be strong and may God look over you two...
2006-07-25 15:23:21 · answer #1 · answered by MojaveDan 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you will NOT go away. Be there for her. Once she realizes that she's hurting your more by keeping you out, she'll let you back in. It sounds like she is just trying to protect you. Please be there for her...Good luck...
2006-07-25 21:25:03 · answer #2 · answered by Mom of 3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u have to respect her wishes shes going through enough without adding any drama to the mix
2006-07-25 21:27:46 · answer #3 · answered by TJR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep up and stick with it but dont push it be gentle dude cuz i hjad a prob like tat and help her pray for her esspecialy.
2006-07-25 21:24:13 · answer #4 · answered by promikey2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id tell her that shes my everything and im gonna be there to help her through it. id make her take me back.
2006-07-25 21:23:47 · answer #5 · answered by goalieman523 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋