How do you feel about your inlaws?

Question

Honestly!!

Answer 1

my mother in law is an annoying nag, she completely ruins my husband and turns him into a sniffling 5 year old everytime she visits ( and she stays for a week or so at a time) she waits on him hand and foot, snoops into everything including our bedroom, reads my mail, and snips at my boys( I have 6 children and go to school.) when she leaves my house is a wreck and it is followed by a week of fighting between myself and my husband because I refuse to wait on him hand and foot I am too busy, and the refrigator is only 20 feet from his lazy boy.
(by the way thanks, it felt good to vent, she just left last week)

Answer 2

I have never met my father-in-law because he died before we got married. My mother-in-law is the most selfish creature I have ever met in my entire life. When I first met her I thought she was nice because she made me believed that she was liked that. Everybody said that maybe she couldn't accept that her only child was married already. She took it upon my daughter not on me. While I was working she would pretend helping my daughter in her assignments but I think she was just looking for chances to raise her voice and scold her. Not a day that my daughter didn't cry and it really pissed me. I thought that grandparents would loved their grandchildren more than their own children but it's the opposite.

Almost all our maids resigned because of her "mala prima dona" attitude. If other daughters-in-law complain about being criticize by mothers-in-law in doing housechores, I didn't have a problem with that because she doesn't know anything or I should say refuses to learn and do anything. Her daily rountine is eats breakfast, eats merienda, reads, watches t.v, eats lunch, reads, eats merienda, watches t.v. eats dinner, and sleeps.For 15 years that we're together she's like that. I could not understand why a mother would not know how or try to learn chores considering that they are not rich. Sometimes I ask myself what in the world that my father-in-law saw in her. She's not even attractive and her built is awful. I saw her picture when she was young , nothing extraordinary. I heard that my father-in-law is a very good man. I pity him for marrying such a narcissistic person. She has time to have her manicure/pedicure done outside home but she sought the services of our church's lay minister to give her communion regularly at home. She feels old when she tries to do chores but feels young when she chats with neighbors, relatives, and attends gatherings.

From the start I have talked to my husband about this and we almost separated. I became a person that I wasn't before. I used to be respectful to elders but because of what he did to my daughter and my family I couldn't help but fight back. She's the worst kind! I pray that I can have my family without her around soon. It would really make me extremely happy.

Answer 3

My FIL has passed away but he was a great man. He was divorced from MIL, after 1 or 2 years.
My MIL is a scum bag. Who had the nerve to send her child molesting son to live with us when we had small children. We have not spoke to her since and that was 25 years ago.

Answer 4

I Love my mother-in-law, sisters-in-laws and family. My father- in law is decease. The same my husband loves my mother and my family. I strongly believe a family bond is a good foundation to build your marriage on. This was my prayers before I married that my husband and I love each others Mom.

Answer 5

I love them, they have accepted me completely. We are different and they do do things that I dont agree with but I have to step back a realize that they are grown adults and they can do what ever they want. However when it interferes with my fiance and I then I can step in and intervene. But I do love them very much and I know they love me the same. Im a very lucky girl!

Answer 6

I am incredibly lucky in that I love them. They are great older couple and I enjoy their company. In addition, my wife loves my folks, and we were both hard hit when my mother died this past year. I may have used all my luck on this, since I have never come close to winning the lottery, however.

Answer 7

honestly i have never met my inlaws they live in mexico

Answer 8

my in laws are so phony.... especially now that they came into a little money. they wanna call themselves christian, and talk down to me because i had sex with their son and we had a baby before we got married. ......
so i did some investigating on the mama, and i learned that both of her sons are by two different men.and she wasn't married to either daddy... the man she is married to now was her ticket off of welfare and that is only cuz she was giving it up to all the navy guys until HE (who is extremely insecure) opted to keep her raggedy @ss around....

i understand that the past is the past and Jesus allegedly forgives us for our sins, but she says that she is a deaconess and Jesus told her that i am still going to hell for what her son and i did!
she's an ignorant bi+ch.....

I BETTER STOP! i am getting mad..

thank you for letting me vent!

Answer 9

Honestly, my in-laws act like outlaws. No, to be honest I've never met my wife parents so I can't say.

Answer 10

I love them and have a great deal of respect for them. They're just plain "good people"--honest, kind, giving, helpful...one extra bonus is that my father-in-law reminds me a lot of my own father, who died when I was 16.