he has broken up with me two times and thats cuz he lives in cali and i live in florida and he isnt sure if he can deal with the long distance thing. i still really love him and he says he does too. we have been talking about going out again, but i dont know if i should, if my heart can take it, wat should i do?
2006-07-25 13:43:32 · 19 answers · asked by crazy&loving it 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe it is best if you are just friends right now. If he has broken up twice already, there are some problems there. It doesn't help that you are so far apart. Still talk to him, but go out and have fun and meet new people. You should always keep your options open!
2006-07-25 13:46:59 · answer #1 · answered by TJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen...
Lond distance relationships are really hard unless there is a lot of love between you two. He has broken up with you two time too many and if he can't handle a long distance relationship, then he doesn't deserve to be with you. You are most likely someone who is willing to try and make things work, he on the other hand, isn't. So here is my advice, don't go out with him again.
2006-07-25 20:52:34 · answer #2 · answered by J-Bird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously distance is a big issue for him and it didn't work out the last two times so, I don't think that you should pursue another relationship with him untill you guys figure out a way to see eachother. The end result in giving this guy another chance is that your heart is going to be broken (again). Try dating people that live closer to you....it's a lot easier that way. Good luck!
2006-07-25 20:49:29 · answer #3 · answered by addicted_two_lipgloss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's broken up with you twice already, I think there's a good chance that he'll break up with you for a third time.
If he really cared about you, he would not break up just because of the distance thing. He would try to work through it, as opposed to jerking you around, by being off again, on again.
I think you deserve better. Leave the jerk alone. That's where he deserves to be.
2006-07-25 20:47:09 · answer #4 · answered by redangus22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you can't find someone local? Long distant relationships are hard to maintain from the beginning and it seems as if you guys are already tready on an unstable path. Maybe you should focus on something else for a while. If you are still interested, then maybe it might be worth pursuing, other than that, I'd say move on to something bigger, better, and CLOSER!
Good luck!
2006-07-25 20:48:47 · answer #5 · answered by Mellow_E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who's supposed to know the answer to that other than yourself. Those long distance relationships never work out no matter how much effort you put into it. You might as well give it up and move on. I know it sucks to hear but it'll end a lot of mental stress and anguish.
2006-07-25 20:49:56 · answer #6 · answered by tripping_00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes hon, sad as it may be, long distance is a romance killer. No matter how much you care for each other, it never seems to work.
So it's not worth getting your heart broken again. Unless one of you can move to the other state, it's not going to work out.
2006-07-25 20:48:48 · answer #7 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships are very tough. Ask yourself these questions. Will you ever meet in him in person? Will you spend a lot of time together in person? How do you know he really loves you, if he's not even around you to see what you're really like? How do you know if he just isn't saying these things just because you look hot to him?
2006-07-25 20:47:59 · answer #8 · answered by Cartman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well unless one of you is willing to locate I think you guys should just remain friends for right now. You both seem to be troubled with the distance and therefore it will probably end up like it did the previous two times.
2006-07-25 20:47:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tough postion. however i have been in this position myself and it ended in heartache. unfortuantly, i took a leap of faith several times with the "love of my life" and i crashed and burned in the final chapter. But, it doesn't mean they all end up like that. if you two have no plans on moving and giving this a real shot, then i say let him go sweetie, there's only so much a heart can take. trust me i learned the hard way.
2006-07-25 20:48:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋