I went out with a boy named Jake for four weeks. The last week of being together, he was avoiding me most of the time. He would say hi to me every once in a while, but that was it. Then, on the first day of summer...well...what a wonderful time to break up with your girlfriend. He dumped me. I just walked away and my first though was that his friend was making fun of him because I'm a year younger than him.
So I was sticking with that theory for about a month until my brother, who is friends with him, brings up that he said he wanted to wait three more years! And I believe him because he's mentioned it before. We were kinda forced into a relationship because my friend kept arguing him because he wouldn't ask me out for that reason. So this friend twists his wrist, almost breaking it, and he finally asked me out. So now I understand why he dumped me, but I still think that we could go out, because who knows if we move on in 3 years?! Please give me all the advice you can think of?
2006-07-25 13:31:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
At the moment, he wants to wait 3 years, and I think that that is a big step and very responsible for hi mand it also means that he respects you to not just string you along for the hell of it.
For the time being, live your life, stay friends with him and lead the single life for a bit. Kiss this boy and that boy but if you like this Jake, and he feels the same, then you'll get together. He might even change his mind when he sees you with other guys :)
2006-07-25 13:36:43 · answer #1 · answered by susanradford18 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I have an ex-boyfriend also. It's hard to deal right? First of all, it's good that you understand why he dumped you so that you wouldn't be insecure and be bitter. YOu may have rushed in and he wants to save it for a much more long-term commitment is that why he left??? that's what you mean? My advise is get to know the guy MORE first. And i mean MORE. Until you know and feel in your heart that you can be safe with him. Sometimes it takes a long long time. You just have to be patient waiting rather than settle for less than true love.
2006-07-25 20:37:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The frustrating part is you can't make somebody go out with you if you don't want to. Obviously she made him. If a guy likes you he will ask you out or have enough guts to tell you. So if you two are broken up then date others. If he wanted to stay with you he would have and please from seeing others do this, don't hook back up with him after summer because he misses you and can't stand to be away from you. Such B.S. , you can find another worthy of your company and good looks I am sure.
2006-07-25 20:38:58 · answer #3 · answered by D-man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just got out of a relationship because my b/f was not treating me right but he was 2 years older than me and we didn't care wat people thought about it we just went along at first we were both kind of weirded out by it but then we got use to it and he had no reason to dump u because of 1 year difference if you lik him and he likes you than you should go out but dont let age difference get in the way of it or if your friends or there friends keep making fun of you than there not great riends so he is just being a guy
im srry for wat happened hope it all works out for u and srry my advise isnt t that great im still a lil upset well gtg
2006-07-25 20:42:33 · answer #4 · answered by Its the luck of the irish!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Four weeks does not make a lifetime...either does three years. If you two are truly meant to be together, give him his time. Sounds like he wasn't as into you as you are into him. Probably someone better out there for ya.
2006-07-25 20:36:40 · answer #5 · answered by vato_loco_in_Texas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should move in if you like him too much to do that or you cant do that then ask your brother for help or ask him if he could convince his friend to go out with you and also have him convince him he doesnt need to wait 3 more years first though
i dont think he should care what he friends think
2006-07-25 20:41:40 · answer #6 · answered by Lindsey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say if u move on with you life oh well you cant sit around and wait forever and if its meant to be you 2 will be together
2006-07-25 20:37:40 · answer #7 · answered by babygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect his decision and if it's meant to be, then 3 years is nothing.
2006-07-25 20:35:11 · answer #8 · answered by LTD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey it's over let it go. I understand that that isn't the advice you wanted to hear, but let go.
2006-07-25 20:40:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he ever asks you out again say oh please do you actually thought i would wait for you. then walk away
2006-07-25 20:39:29 · answer #10 · answered by pigletsrus c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋