I met this amazing guy in September, and we have been really good friends since. Recently, in May, he told me his feelings ;that he liked me. But ever since school has been out, I've been really busy, so we only talked 3 times on the phone so far this summer. He went on a trip and before he left he told me he loved me and he wouldn't be able to talk to me for about a week. I happened to be on his myspace page a couple of days ago and noticed he had a lot of pictures with a girl. He didn't even tell me he came back! I read a couple of her comments and I think they may be dateing..? It broke my heart so much, because I think I may love this guy, and I let me being busy get in the way of us ever getting together, also the fact I think he may have moved on.. Can someone please give me some advice of what to do?!
2006-07-25 13:12:19 · 7 answers · asked by Manda 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can't exactly say i was in the same situation, because it was different... However on the basis of that there were ONCE two way feelings, and then once I came back from somewhere it seemed as if it become one way and he wasn't feeling me anymore. It wasn't nearly as long or as close however, its rough.. you're thinking about him all the time, all the memories you have come back over and over... I know it sucks big time. Try and go out with some good friends, have a good time and try not to think about him... if he is dating this girl stay off his myspace it'll just drive you crazy... so do your best to stop thinking about him I know thats hard though :-\ I'm sorry I know what ur going through good luck hope I could help a tiny bit at least..
2006-07-25 13:17:39 · answer #1 · answered by USCfemme10 3 · 10⤊ 2⤋
Just talk to him and try to feel out the situation and his feelings. It's possible he moved on and you lost out...or it's also possible it could be like some tv show where he will go "No, that's just my __insert relation or other friend term here__!" Hey, maybe it's also some girl that happens to like him, but he doesn't feel the same and just thinks her a friend... You could even mention that you saw his MySpace, say you loved looking at his pics, and ask about the girl. Maybe ask in just a casual way, like you think it's just a friend. That should hopefully get it out in the open, but you'll never know until you go ask him, so go talk! ; )
2006-07-25 20:29:23 · answer #2 · answered by Indigo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough one, you definitely needed to give him more attention than you did and not take him for granted. The best that I can suggest is wait a while (and dont visit his myspace pages coz that will just give you more heartache). Call him more often and let him know youre there for him .. that way you leave yourself open in case something doesnt work out between them later :P I dont know how well this is gonna work out though. Just my 2 cents!
2006-07-25 20:18:30 · answer #3 · answered by Arvind C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time you're able contact him tell him you love him and you want to be his girlfriend if he says he already has a girlfriend then tell him its okay even if its not keep in touch with him so you know wats going on with him and that girl. if they breakup then give it another shot if he isnt dating that girl thats really good. good luck
2006-07-25 20:22:01 · answer #4 · answered by bonee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont get too upset...u need to just sit back and relax and make it seem like u dont care...a guy and a girl are totally different with the love making system...guys think about one thing and girls want relationships...so just act like you dont care about anything...but one thing you need to do is ask him about her....say:are you guys dating....if he says no than u have no prob...if he really likes you than he will come to you...there are alot of guys out there and the right one is gonna come to you one day!
2006-07-25 20:18:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop him a card, or email, telling him what you saw, what it made you realize, if he's interested, then wait and see what that knowledge does in his heart.
2006-07-25 20:17:36 · answer #6 · answered by Dragon Sword 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk/flirt with other guys.
2006-07-25 20:22:15 · answer #7 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋