At the moment I am not speaking to my cousin over a argument and he hit me, he's been trying to talk to me. And I have been ignoring him, another argument accured over the ignoring. So I decided this is not going anywhere be nice and try and be friends now I am getting the cold treatment. How do I deal with this problem. If I ignore him again will it create more problems I am tired of fighting.
2006-07-25 13:02:58 · 32 answers · asked by nicecupofteanicecupofcoffee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
leave them alone cause they must not wanna be bothered with u
2006-07-25 13:04:10 · answer #1 · answered by powderjusblazin 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If your cousin can only solve an argument by hitting then leave it alone and think will he hit you each time you have some disagreement,not good, I think I would rather have the cold treatment then you can't argue and you won't get hit.anyway he's the one ignoring you sounds childish
2006-07-25 13:19:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just approch him and say that you are sorry for your part in the fight, but he had no right to put his hands on you. Tell him you are willing to forgive and forget. Say that you were both acting childish is in ignoring each other and you really want to stop fighting. Then, leave it up to him. Just walk away, let him come to you after he has had time to figure it out. If he keeps ignoring you, it just may be time to put him behind you untill he can grow up a bit. Good luck!
2006-07-25 13:07:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as though you've already spread yourself far enough!It's time for him to meet you the rest of the way.You've already met him more than halfway.Don't worry about him,keep it personable when u see him,but go on with your life and get some new friends,or just learn to enjoy time by yourself. Remember;,"Absence makes the heart grow fonder..".
2006-07-25 13:10:14 · answer #4 · answered by Direktor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't have to ignore him but you don't have to be nice to him either. If he wants to hit you in an argument he must have been losing and he needs to grow up.
2006-07-25 13:08:04 · answer #5 · answered by jmemallow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just meet him where he is when you encounter each other. If he's friendly, be friendly. If he's cold, leave him alone. Let him lead, then you don't have to worry about it. He doesn't sound very stable, so whatever you may try to initiate may backfire.
2006-07-25 13:07:13 · answer #6 · answered by Dragon Sword 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he should never have hit you and that is what must be address here first! do you understand that!
second he needs to know never to lay a hand on you again or you shall report it to an authority!!
He should be begging you for forgiveness!
do not associate your self with him anylonger until he learns self restraint and proper behavior towards you my friend!
distance yourself from him immidiately is my advice to you thank goodness he is ignoring you and you should run from him til you and he can talk things out!
2006-07-25 13:08:02 · answer #7 · answered by wise 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignoring people is a power storke, a controlling thing.
Walk away from this one because the longer you keep making vain attempts, the longer he is in control.
2006-07-25 13:06:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would just leave him alone and not try to be friendly or anything just treat him like another face in the crowd
2006-07-25 13:11:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I would just be civil and let you cousin figure it all out by himself. Don't argue, be courteous and smile
2006-07-25 13:07:15 · answer #10 · answered by loligo1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he had no right putting his hands on you ever. if you wish to be the bigger person and continue talking to him that's fine but set limits and don't allow him to hurt you physically ever again. Cousin or no Cousin there should be no physical violence.
2006-07-25 13:06:17 · answer #11 · answered by kitkool 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋