"--------------""Girls--------------
-----------are like apples------
-------on trees. The best ones-----
-----are at the top of the tree.-----
---The boys dont want to reach---
--for the good ones because they--
-r afraid of falling and getting hurt.-
-Instead, they get the rotten apples-
from the ground that arent as good,
but easy. So the apples up top think
something wrong w/ them when in
-reality they're amazing. They just--
---have to wait for the right boy to
---- come along, the one who's-
----------- brave enough to-----
---------------climb all---------
---------------the way--------
--------------to the top--------
-------------of the tree.---------
2006-07-25 12:49:25 · 7 answers · asked by goldieluxxx 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
At 18, you probably haven't been close to a lot of men, just tall boys pretending to be.
It's all a matter of confidence and strength. Men want a woman who will boost their self esteem, not hurt it. So... men tend to be attracted to the strongest/prettiest/most desireable woman they can find; that they think they're at least equal to.
So, most men will tend to go for the rotten apples, or even a few half-baked ones, rather than try for something they think is out of their reach. Only a few will reach for the top.
So... if you have to limit your choices eventually to one, be selective. Be strong, be smart, be beautiful. It will weed out the weak ones for you. Then, you choose who gets to "pick" you.
ps... like your poem, BTW
2006-07-25 12:56:55 · answer #1 · answered by antirion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are intimidated by strong women. They have no control over them. They can't force you to do anything you don't want to do. I find being that way makes me less likely to have a long lasting relationship witha guy. They hate it. But were more powerful in that sense. Some guys find it more challenging others hate it. To each his own. If he hates it FORGET HIM!
2006-07-25 19:59:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, we're not, honey. You just keep finding all the bad ones.
Why is it ok for women to stereotype men? If men do it it's a horrible thing.
2006-07-25 19:56:21 · answer #3 · answered by Mike R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
naw. i'd make the climb to the top, regardless of scratches, scrapes, splinters, bruises, whatever. just to get me the sweetest apple
2006-07-25 19:54:22 · answer #4 · answered by metronome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like mine brainy.
2006-07-25 20:33:23 · answer #5 · answered by position28 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
terrified
2006-07-25 19:56:09 · answer #6 · answered by Sanjo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope I'm not...
2006-07-25 19:58:01 · answer #7 · answered by duck_kreeves 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋