Ok, so my now ex boyfriend left me stranded in STL, which is 3hours away from my home, bc i wouldnt give him oral sex. Im 18, but my parents would freak if they knew i was still seeing this boy. I still live at home until college. Anyways, i cant get to the police station without them knowing, and getting caught and having to explain. Is there any way i can just file one over the internet? I guess i could try a phone call too?
2006-07-25 12:42:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government ➔ Law Enforcement & Police
FYI
im not seeing him anymore,..i had to spend the nite in STL with no cash or phone signal!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-25 12:43:08 · update #1
Sorry Jerrica, police reports can't be filed be over the telephone or internet. If you want to file a police report you will have to do so in person. However, I would like to add, that unless your boyfriend tried to rape you or physically abused you in any way you really don't have much of a case. If none of these events occurred I say it would be best for you just to chalk this up as one of life's lessons. I am sorry your jackass of a boyfriend subjected you to this but I am glad to know that you are okay. Before I leave you I want to share with you one of life's little lessons that I've come to learn. As a teenager I didn't always agree with some of the rules and decisions my parents made in regards to my life. I felt that I was smart enough and mature enough to make my own decisions. However, over time I have come to realize that the guidelines and rules they had established weren't to prevent me from enjoying my life or having fun, but rather to protect me because they love me. I want you to realize that your parents love you. I want you to recognize that had you been obedient to your parents none of this would have happened. You are 18 years old now. Technically you are an adult. Part of our responsibilities of being adults is to be accountable for our actions. You want your parents to treat you as an adult, but yet you want to sneak around and hide things as if your were a kid, and that's not right. I not only hope you learn from this experience, but I hope you grow as well and make wiser decisions. I will be praying for you. May God bless and keep you. This is the Cave Man signing out. Peace.
2006-07-25 13:34:53 · answer #1 · answered by cave man 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No~do yourself a favor and start listening to your parents and you wouldn't have even had this problem. You said that they would freak if they knew you were still seeing him, so you never would have been in that situation if you would have stayed away from him in the first place.
What exactly do you want to file a police report about~~he did nothing wrong!
PLEASE TRY to grow up a little since you're about to be in the "real world!"
2006-07-25 12:48:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, did you get hurt after being stranded . . . or are you wanting to file a report against your boyfriend for stranding you? I don't know that any crime was committed there, even though he was clearly a jerk. . . .
I don't know that you can e-file a police report. If you accuse someone of a crime, you have to present yourself in person at some point, or at least call.
2006-07-25 12:47:42 · answer #3 · answered by Zombie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
police reports are too confidential to send via the internet. The only way is through a phonecall.
2006-07-25 12:46:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think so. i think this is one of those 'many' times that your parents judgement turned out to be right. only you thought they were worse than stupid and you're judgement was infinitely better.
i'd say chalk this one up to experience.
if you DID file a report, who would back up your side? your ex-bf
could say you ditched him for some other dude---how could you prove him wrong?
i'd say give your mom and dad a hug for being right. chalk this one up to experience. next time, choose your boyfriends better.
2006-07-25 12:48:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's a jerk !!!!
just type in
i'd like to file
a police report
on your internet
search site and
see what pops
up !!! if that doesnt
work go to the police
in person ... but it is
really your fault you got
stranded i mean why
would you date a jerk
like im in the first place ??
STeph
2006-07-25 12:47:02 · answer #6 · answered by stephhh (: 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And just what charges do you think you can file?
2006-07-25 12:45:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
file a report about what?
2006-07-25 12:45:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey---you could have stayed at my place! i live in st louis.
all i would've asked for was a hand job.
2006-07-25 12:53:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-07-25 12:45:06 · answer #10 · answered by idontkno 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋