when I go to bar/club.. ummmm..so many beautiful girls , but i dont know how to approach a girl, how to start conversation.. anybody can help???, otherwise it seem i will die virgin...(i am not very hot..)
2006-07-25 12:40:51 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you ugly, yeah
2006-07-25 12:43:59 · answer #1 · answered by Luis T 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Why must she have to be beautiful? Why can't she be pretty or cute but nice, always start off with eye contact, if she responds back then she is interested, then offer with sincere to buy a drink (men son't do that anymore0 thats a point for you. then if she says yes, ask her about herself and really listen( it could be her test) then ask her to dance but don't talk unless she does, the go back and continue to chat a little about yourself and please try not to bring up any bad relationships or that your a virgin. Don't push yourself on her just have fun and at the end of the night ask her if you can call her and exchange numbers. If she says yes to all these things then take her out for a dinner and a movie, or what ever interest you both have, and if by chance you are a romantic buy her some flowers(don't go broke over it.) try to find out her favorite. good luck and best wishes.
I hope this will help you.
2006-07-25 12:51:08 · answer #2 · answered by angel_64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta RELAX, man. Maybe hitting on chicks in a bar scene isn't the way to go for you. Go find something (in public) that you really enjoy. Volunteer with the SPCA--everybody loves kitties and puppies, especially girls, and critters're always doing something cute--lots of conversation topics. Volunteer as a tourguide (especially if you're near something that tourists go see). The local zoo? Again, lots of cute animals (girls dig that stuff). People will see your personality, not your nervous attempt to be suave.
Just put yourself in a situation where you feel in control of yourself, relax, and have fun! Girls are a lot more quickly drawn to a guy who looks like he's having fun (reads as someone who is fun to be around). And personality is a BIG thing with girls (anyone who tells you otherwise is selling you beer or condoms).
Good luck!
2006-07-25 12:51:48 · answer #3 · answered by Woz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not there are worse things, like dieing a disease ridden promiscuous man. Take it easy and be yourself. You fail to give your age but my guess is you are a teenager, don't rush it, let it happen when the time is right and with the right person. Any man can get it on it takes a real man to abstain until he meets the right one to give it up to. You have to decide if you want to be the type A guy, the one who thinks he is all that and has sex with a string of girls and now is trying to learn how to live with herpes or aids or the type B guy,the one who cares about women and does not want to use them as sexual objects and does not want to trash his body either. The one who prefers to treat his women with respect and wants to give them the best man he can be. Chill, and enjoy those around you. Good Luck
2006-07-25 12:52:54 · answer #4 · answered by joejo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
unless you die instantly, you most likely will not die a virgin. you don't need to be hot to get a woman to like you. women like men to be funny, confident, and smart too. as well as a bunch of other good stuff. Play the Game. Have Fun. oh yeah and make sure you're well groomed and you smell nice. and don't forget to brush your teeth
2006-07-25 12:45:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know where people got the idea that Mary remained a virgin all her life, but I don't think they got it from the Bible. Matthew 1:25 says about Joseph: "And he did not know her until she bore a son. And he called His name Jesus." This word "until" seems to take it for granted that Joseph DID "know" her after the birth of Jesus. Jesus is also said to have brothers and sisters in the Bible. Once Jesus is born, what need would there be for his mother to remain a virgin?
2016-03-16 05:22:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient. I know a 30-year-old virgin male and a 27-year-old virgin male. Your time will come. Try meeting girls somewhere else than a bar. Look around at work. I met my husband at work. Before approaching girls, really know who you are and feel comfortable with yourself, then when you go to talk to them you don't have to pretend or feel awkward.
2006-07-25 12:44:32 · answer #7 · answered by Precious 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have more of a confidence problem than anything else. If you feel you aren't very hot, ask yourself why aren't you and then perhaps change that.
Other than that just go up to a girl and start talking to her, you never know what might happen. After all beauty is in the eye of the beholder, or the beerholder ;-)
2006-07-25 12:51:50 · answer #8 · answered by Just_Another_Guy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
By you chosing to die a virgin, still may not guarantee you a place in Heaven.
2006-07-25 12:45:46 · answer #9 · answered by DUMMY 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Pick a girl. Smile. Pay her a compliment. Ask her something about herself. Ask her more things about herself. People love to talk about themselves and their interests. Put your focus on her and really listen. Conversation may lead to more, but if it doesn't, just keep trying. Personality counts more than "hot." Good luck.
2006-07-25 12:46:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd recommend yahoo personals...it's how I found my boyfriend. I'm very shy as well and i think it would be easier for you to try and find someone online instead of trying to go up to someone in person and talk to them...at least it was easier for me. I hope that helps. Good luck.
2006-07-25 12:47:31 · answer #11 · answered by Lindsay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋