i weigh 115 pounds and i am 5'5
he is always going on about me eating
and now i cant eat in front of him...and he thinks i should go on the dr phil show to lose weight!!!! what should i do...
2006-07-25 12:29:13 · 12 answers · asked by cinderella 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dr Phil show?? Hope he was joking about that part..If me and my girl were in that situation, I'd convince her to try and lose weight, and join her in the activities to comfort her, like eating the same foods she's eating, and participate in the exercises she performs to lose weight. Just sit down and talk to him about it!
2006-07-25 12:34:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
u should dump him because if he's going to complain about how much u weigh and if he says u eat too much then u should dump him, because there's nothing wrong with u because for someone as tall as u 115 pounds is an okay weight
2006-07-25 19:37:19 · answer #2 · answered by chaikid88@sbcglobal.net 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been with this guy? Where did he learn his rudeness and insensitivity from? Why do you put up with it? He makes himself look good by putting you down like that. He has insecurity issues and onlys feels good about himself by putting others down,don't take it!There are other guys out there that will treat you like a lady you know!
You need to tell him to his face how much this upsets you and to stop it. If he doesn't respect you enough to do so then drop him and move on to another guy. No woman should ever allow a guy to disrespect her like that.
2006-07-25 19:58:40 · answer #3 · answered by December Princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunatly all bf will say the same thing. i weigh the same as you and my bf have all acted in the same way you describe. neither of us are actually over weight but boys are used to seeing very thin models and this is what they come to expect. the only thing i can suggest is try not to let it get you down and don't starve yourself for him, i'm sure he eats whatever he likes!
2006-07-25 19:39:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say he's a creep and has issues. You are the perfect height and weight. As to your choice in men, well, enough said about that. You need to drop that loser and find yourself a real guy. One who will appreciate you and your figure.
2006-07-25 19:34:40 · answer #5 · answered by johnb693 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dump his ***. That's a perfect weight to be at! Hell I wish I was 115 pds!!
Any guy who makes you feel bad about yourself is not worth it. Trust me.
2006-07-25 19:34:30 · answer #6 · answered by Dark Princess 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
if your that tall and weigh that much your not fat. You dont need to lose weight. And your appearance shouldnt matter to him if he loves or cares about you.
2006-07-25 19:33:43 · answer #7 · answered by supra02@sbcglobal.net 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump him! You sound like you are perfectly healthy as is....
2006-07-25 19:36:23 · answer #8 · answered by M_J_S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont dump him, stay with him and keep complaining about him
2006-07-25 19:39:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
does not sound fat to me.
The guy is an a$$hole.
You know what to do.
2006-07-25 20:13:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋