My boyfriend wants me to kiss him, he is being really nice about it, he doesn't pressure me or any thing like that, but that is not really the big problem, the big problem is that I want to kiss him, but I have never kissed a guy, so I'm really nervous, scaried, and shy! What do I do?
2006-07-25 12:21:17 · 15 answers · asked by Scaried Girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, if he's nice then why not tell him what you think and ask him to make the first move?
2006-07-25 12:25:57 · answer #1 · answered by LTD 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are both very in tuned to each other than the kiss will go just fine. Dont try to make it something that it isnt. It will come to you and you will know if it a good kiss or not. Try if at all possible to not think about it. Allow him to make the first move if at all possible. You will also know if you like kissing by this kiss that he starts with you. He sounds like a very loyal and patient guy so take this to heart and just let him kiss you first.......this will really be helpful for you since you mention'd that you are very shy.
2006-07-25 19:33:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing wrong in admitting he's your first kiss. Infact, I think this will make him proud! Everyone goes through one thing or another in life for the first time. Just think... he wouldn't be with you if he didn't like you. So there must be something special that you have.
If the timing and the feeling is right, yes, close your eyes and let go. But... before you even go out on your next date with this guy, promise yourself that you would know when to stop. Remember! After the kissing goes on... there's no going back to holding hands! It's always better to think and plan ahead... because when you're with the guy you absolutely like.. you can't think straight anymore! Kissing leads to a lot of things...and unplanned babies! Let your guy know what you are ready for and what you are ready to give and tell him straight out if you do not like what he is doing or want him to stop. It is best to be honest with guys all the time, so they know you are not "just teasing" them. Goodluck... and be safe!
2006-07-25 19:33:38 · answer #3 · answered by wynnski 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start by kissing him on the check. Just a little peck will break the ice and get you past the shy and nervous stage.
2006-07-25 19:33:45 · answer #4 · answered by MoonDoggie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have confidence girl. If u truly believe that this guy likes you then u should feel comfortable kissing him. AND if he's one of the good guyz, he'll teach u how to kiss.
2006-07-25 19:56:11 · answer #5 · answered by Sydney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u got the confidence, and the relationship is open and loving like it should be, talk to him about it. If he laughs, then hes not mature enough to kiss.
2006-07-25 19:25:15 · answer #6 · answered by Ladd C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just close your eyes and let go. Your instinct will kick in, and your boyfriend will do his part as well. Don't worry, just enjoy it!
2006-07-25 19:25:16 · answer #7 · answered by cuca10 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is all about timing and when the mood is right. When you feel it just grab his face and plant one on him.
2006-07-25 19:25:35 · answer #8 · answered by Wahenie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just kiss him he will understand BE CONFIDENT thats all that matters enjoy it dont worry
2006-07-25 19:26:30 · answer #9 · answered by Devast8r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just puts his lips and yours together and the rest will come naturally. :pd:
2006-07-25 19:37:58 · answer #10 · answered by This, That & such 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋