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Question

i am 5ft 1 tall.i my weight is 7 n a half stone...i have a nice shape not skinny...but ppl say things 2 me like do u eat properly..i eat for fun cant put on weight....it gets upseting when ppl say stuff..i just want 2 say.just cause ur fat fat cow...why do ppl make such coments.

Answer 1

People who say that are 9 times out of 10 jealous, because they want to be your size or similar.

Something that really annoys me is that it is always people that are bigger than you that say that but what the tend to not realise is, just because your not fat or at least bigger than them it doesn't mean your happy with yourself. People who are slim shall we say can still have issues with there weight and are not always happy.

How would large people like it if we said to them 'why don't you stop eating because you are so fat'....they wouldn't would they so next time someone says to you the remarks you've stated just think of that.

I am 5ft 2 and weigh 8 1/2 stone and it really gets on my nerves when people say, well you don't have to worry because your tiny, so I might be but it doesn't mean I am happy with my body/shape/or size.

Honestly, I wouldn't let it get to you too much, life is too short to keep worrying about what everyone thinks of you and if we were all identical it would be boring.

Answer 2

Because anorexia and other eating disorders are such a problem these days. Some probably are jealous others are complimenting you in an off handed way and the rest are nosy bitches who don't matter anyway. Check with your doc and if he says your good to hell with everybody.

Answer 3

lots of people have called me anorexic though I am not because I like you have trouble putting on weight...they seem to do it because they themselves have trouble keeping weight off and they are jealous of you because of that...even though it is sometimes subconscious they will probably always say mean or offencive things about you...as long as you do keep up good health and don't develop an eating disorder...stay true to yourself and be proud of who you are and of your weight...as for the comments just block it out...i know it can hurt and be hard to block out sometimes but as long as you remember there are other people who have experienced the same thing as you and have gotten through it before and who are still going through the same thing as you all over the world it will help you get through the rough times and become a happy person with a good body figure that is also healthy and proud of who they are and doesn't take words that are meant to be hurtful to heart. good luck and something my mom told me to say back to people like that when I was younger...well you better not look in a mirror cause it'll shatter after reflecting your face!...and piss off!...that was my favourite...and one last piece of advice don't let people know it bothers you.

Answer 4

how many people know what 7 and a half stones are. Are they big stones or little stones.
If you feel you are overweight than do something about it.
If you are happy with the way you look than ignore what people say, because most of those people who say bad stuff are stupid, inconsiderate, mindless, rude, people whose opinions do not need to be considered. Be yourself. There is someone out there for you. Find him/her.

Answer 5

Only to make themselves feel better. Dont listen to those retards. I have a friend who thinks she's fat (no she isnt) and she went through bilimia, and also started to cut. Becuz of wat stupid ppl said. But her friends were always there to help. *like me, yay* everybody has somethin they dont like about themselves. But that dosent give the right for other ppl to talk trash about others. They only know how it feels when they get dissed to. And most of the time they deserve it. So dont pay attention to those losers. Everyones special and beautiful in their own way, even u. I hope this helps.

Answer 6

It is your posture. Stand up straight and start jutting your lower jaw out, squint and swagger! They'll straighten up! Also start making noises if some one makes a negative comment to you, such as loud belching or snorting! That will fix 'em!

Answer 7

I agree they must be jealous. As long as you are healthy and you feel good you don't need to force yourself to gain any weight. Trust me when you get older it will automatically come on. Enjoy it while you have it. Plus, ppl do tend to criticize everybody but themselves so just ignore them and be happy.

Answer 8

It's all envy in a day, when too many people are overweight and can't or won't lose that extra weight.
So just smile at them, and tell them you eat well, and take care of yourself. Tell them you are just lucky that way, and you appreciate their concern.
At your weight, and height, you are not skinny. At 105 lbs, you are just right.

Answer 9

what does 7 n a half stone mean????

well i get the same thing..people are always telling me i dont eat enough or eat right and blah blah blah blah...i eat what i want and how often i want and dont gain weight..when people say that stuff to me i just blow it off cause i know what i eat and how i eat they dont..and i simply tell them its my body..and if they want to follow me around and watch what i eat and how i eat then go ahead, but nothing is gonna change

Answer 10

No one should ever comment on another person's body. It's rude, although they probably don't mean to be. You don't need to answer, just smile and change the subject, and enjoy the fact that you look so good.