My wife wants a 3some. Should i agree?

Question

With another male or female as she is bicurious.

Answer 1

It's not a really good idea. Now, if you want to do that sort of thing, you do it with someone you don't care about where there are no emotional strings attached. When you're in a relationship and do something like that someone is bound to be hurt or mad about something.

My friend did this with her ex and she said after she did it with the other guy and her boyfriend, her boyfriend got mad at her and would bring it up....Then she said she did it with another girl and him and said that he got a little mad, but she was mad too because she thought he liked the other girl more or something like that.

So you both need to think about the situation.

Answer 2

Well, why does she want a 3some? How do you feel about a 3some? It's better that she came to you instead of going out cheating, but you need to think long and hard about what is acceptable to you.

Answer 3

Did she do this before you married her?? If not, why does she want to do it now?? If you give in to this, what will it be next time- a five some or a 25 some??? Marriage is about two people loving eachother and being together, not sharing it with the neighbours.

Answer 4

NOPE, NO WAY, NOT A CHANCE !!!! Think of it this way...what if she wasn't feeling this way but you were....would she be just as understanding and say "oh, ok honey I understand you are just curious...." Marriage is a commitment to each other....not to each other and who ever you invite into your bed. I truly think it will be something you will regret later down the road. And wanted to have sex with a another male is not "bi-curious" that is greedy. Or she is trying to tell you that your sex life is not spicy enough for her....so spice it up !!!

Answer 5

Ahhhhh. Every man's dream. A threesome. I want one too actually but I say that you two should lay down some rules and either do it with someone you trust or someone who doesn't have a crimnal record containing any stalkerish tendencies or murdering abilities. Oh and you should also check your relationship to make sure it's stable enough for something like this.

Answer 6

have a loooooong conversation about this. Do you feel comfortable with this kind of activity? Are you willing to share? How far are you willing to let things go?

if she is too hot up in the idea and will not listen... the answer showld be NO.

Answer 7

obviously u need to talk this through with her, are u up for it aswell thing is ur gonna have to think if she chooses a male could you handle that male touching her?... If your relationship is strong enough between you both and that you both can admit thats it will not come between you then go for it,,,, My only advise is to either choose someone you both dont know and that you know your not going to see that person.....Only yourself and your wife can decide this. good luck

Answer 8

I say no, especially if you have children or either of you is the jealous type. She should have did this when she was single. I've seen many mariages go bad because someone wanted a threesome.

Answer 9

Don't do it....it all starts out as fun and games, but if anyone shows feelings, you marriage is then doomed. Its very,very rare that things ever work out in the end.

Answer 10

If you want to destroy your marriage you can agree. What if she likes the other party better than you? Then what? I'd think long and hard about it before I would agree.