Okay, well, we were talking on AIM, and we both said we really liked each other for a long time. But she was in SC and now she's moved to Texas. And I have know I do what my heart says. My mind says "Come on...WHAT ARE YOU DOING?!" But she's just so...wonderful. She makes my eyes glisten with happiness and she made me get out of depression after a family memeber's death. I love her so, and she's so good..but it's like I'm waiting for her to be gross and evil. How can she be so good to me? And I don't know what to do because she said the bf gf thing WAS official, but she just didn't feel right saying she loved me, that it was for like marriages. And she says we are dating because we like each other a lot. Now things have just changed. It's like my stomach dropped, this coming on all of a sudden. I'm so mad and upset yet falling for her. It's a ll confusing and crazy, and she is SO much better than my ex. But I just...don't know is we should stay together or break up. It's SOOOOO awful!!
2006-07-25 12:01:55 · 10 answers · asked by chilipeppersfan101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK well I know what your going through cuz I went through the same thing. You just need to face the facts that she might not be gross or evil and that she just might really be a nice sweet girl that really likes and cares for you. Now as for the love thing give it time. Not everyone is ready for love at the same time. Stay together and let things fall into place. I wish you luck with your relationship!
2006-07-25 12:07:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hun she just needs to spend some more time alone with you to get to know you before she can even think about saying she loves you. So give her some more time to think. Maybe you should set up an evening for the two of you so you can learn alot more about each other.
P.S : GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-07-25 12:09:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-10 14:26:06 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yall should stay together i mean u cant rush her into lovin u love is so special and she will tell u she loves u when the time is right u have to be patient and give her time but juz hang in there and stop thinkin she is goin to mess up but long distnace realtionships are tuff 2 but u have to have trust so if u have trust yall relationship will be ok but plz dont break up wit her juz be patient
2006-07-25 12:09:52 · answer #4 · answered by mzdbwifey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Saying that you love each other comes with time. Don't stress over it right now. Enjoy the time that you have together in the present. Don't waste time wondering what if...GO FOR IT!
2006-07-25 12:05:55 · answer #5 · answered by Chloe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, just because she won't say loves you, does not mean she doesn't really like you. If she feels a spark between you but she doesn't believe it's love, than it doesn't mean she wants to break up. So prove to her that you love her, and give her reason to believe you're worth being loved by her.
2006-07-25 12:06:16 · answer #6 · answered by loosenupmybuttons 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by the sounds of things u b an idoit 2 dump her and ye long distance reationships suck... trsust me i kno, and it kills all intomacy, (but c if u can get a train up stay a week wid her c how thing go face 2 face) and then if u still feel the same way tell her!!!
2006-07-25 12:05:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why should you break up wtih her? distance is nothing compared to the power of love... yeah ok i know that sounds corny but its true... so she may not LOVE you yet, but your feelings for each other are very strong... and that may mature into love later... you really cant help who you like...
i think you guys should stay together...
2006-07-25 12:06:16 · answer #8 · answered by baby bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its love. it does crazy things to all of us. be glad she says your a couple but not readsy to say i love you yet. it just means that when she says it she really means it. just trust in it. good luck
2006-07-25 12:08:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay together.
2006-07-25 12:05:53 · answer #10 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋