Should I keep it to myself?

Question

I've been dating this guy for 3 months & at first I wasn't really feeling the "relationship" thing, but he just kinda grew on me. So lately we've become a lot closer & he makes me happy. I've been developing strong feelings for him. In fact, I think that I love him, but we talked about this earlier on in the relationship. We both weren't fond of those words due to his last heartbreak and mine too. He's only loved one girl in his entire life (the mother of his child) but she hurt him and they don't even speak to each other. He said that he would never tell a girl that he loved them first. Should I take the chance and tell him that I love him, wait, or what?

Answer 1

i think you should tell him if you really feel like you love him. i mean... he may not be willing to say the same right away, but if your relationship is as strong as you think it is, one day he will. the question is after you say it, can you wait for as long as you need to for him to say it? or after you say it, are you going to get tired of waiting for him to say it back?

if you can wait, then i say tell him. even though his heart was broken by his "only" love, it's the best thing to hear that a person loves you if you know they mean it. :)

and i'm sure he'll tell you he loves you too because you'll eventually get over your exes and realize how much you guys DO love each other. :) :) :)

good luck!

Answer 2

Actually, leave him...

Love has no rules, people do...

Don't be with a man who can't commit to loving someone.

A man this much scared of women will not be able to give you anything...you will be bored of not getting what you want, hurt because he does not show his feelings and leave him at the end.

Why wait? Leave him now...

Let him come after you...

OR

don't get into any expectations from him and live happily ever after..

Answer 3

if it's true than yes