I have been with my man for 2 years off and on. I love him and adore him.We are both in are 20's and talked about getting married later on. I recently got on myspace to talk to friends and find old ones. He new about that, however in the process of meeting old ones there are some friends that are men.Ofcourse I added them and talk to them once in a blue moon. My profile was private and I set it to public yestureday so my boyfriend can see all the pictures I put of us on there. Well not only did he see the pics he saw my guy friends and flipped. He said that I should have told him that I met old guy friends and who are they.What should I do?, he yelled and screamed and I did the same and we hung up and have not talked since. I am not the type to call when I see I am not wrong and this time I know I am not.Any advice?
2006-07-25 11:56:05 · 8 answers · asked by Amry 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thisa guy seems to have over-reacted to the situation. It is certainly fine to ask who they are... but it is anbother to go all out and flip out. If he is that insecure with himself and relationships, then he is certainly not worthy of you and is not ready for any relationship of any kind or committment.
if he wants to civilly talkk it out, then by all means talk... but uf this continues on its current path... start looking for mature males
2006-07-25 12:04:58 · answer #1 · answered by Onyx Dracona 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You have to look at how he acts about your other relationships. Does he get upset if you have male friends in general or does he have a problem particularly with myspace? I can understand if he doesn't like you on myspace. A lot of people think it's creepy.
I have a very active myspace account and my ex-boyfriend didn't really like it. But we never had any problems because I use it in a respectable manner.
Find out why he flipped. If he doesn't trust you, you have bigger problems than the future of your myspace account.
2006-07-25 12:22:51 · answer #2 · answered by 2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I beleive that purely a vulnerable relationship could nicely be ruined with the aid of some thing or something.in case you have a stable sturdy relationship then i beleive on you or your significant different can end it.some people dont take it heavily and others meet people and get married as a benifit from it so sure i beleive it may break a relationship yet whilst it does then the relationship could have been pulled aside with the aid of anyting in time
2016-10-08 07:52:43 · answer #3 · answered by regula 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should give him time to think and cool off, then go and see him. Have him sit down and talk about how Myspace is just a site, and that the other guys don't mean anything like he does to you.
2006-07-25 12:01:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well in a way you were wrong. You should of told him. What was the harm in telling him.I know after the fact when the words start to fly people can say things they really don't mean. How would you have felt if it was him contacting the old girl friends?
2006-07-25 12:01:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you should call him.. not because you were wrong, but to explain to him... you have the right to have friends who are guys!!! this guys seems to be getting very jealous! its not like you were cheating on him! and if you were, you wouldnt have let him see your profile! so i dont see why he is getting mad because you have every right to be talking with friends that you knew before him..
2006-07-25 12:02:00 · answer #6 · answered by baby bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is not that understanding now and your only talking to the other men,let him go.It only gets worse as time goes on.
2006-07-25 12:01:24 · answer #7 · answered by Cathy O 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should definitely end the relationship...if he's this controling about ur life now think of how he'll be later on...these kind of things can get really bad really fast....he shouldn't get that upset about you talking to other guys...he's being way to possesive...just tell him it's over
2006-07-25 12:09:57 · answer #8 · answered by Lindsay 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋