in love, is there such thing as destiny or it's just a coincidence?

Answer 1

In life and love you make your own destiny. Both are determined only by the choices YOU make.

Answer 2

In love, there is neither Destiny nor Coincidence.
Well, perhaps that is too stark.
I should say that, in love, both Destiny and Coincidence pale in comparison to the biggest decider of love: ECONOMICS.

There isn't a woman on earth (that I've met), that would even consider love with an unemployed homeless man. It matters not how hard Fate, Destiny, or Coincidence tries, it's not ever going to happen for the poor homeless guy. He'll sit on the corner begging for loose change his entire life, and die alone and unloved.

Even in the modern western civilization we live in, where women have equal footing as men in the workplace, the first criteria for the majority of women considering a mate is: "Does he have a good job?" or at the very least "is he employed?"
It goes true for men considering women as well, but to a much lesser extent. The majority of men don't place as rigid criteria on women regarding employment and finances.

Personally, I have witnessed first hand how money plays the most central part in the game of love. In a case of extremes touching, I'm living the flip-side of the same coin (no pun intended) as the homeless man. He's penniless, I'm far from it.
Yet, I believe I will also die without knowing my true love, because from my perch, I must always wonder, would the woman I am with still be with me if I was poor? The homeless man knows the answer to that.

Answer 3

Yes, there is such a thing as GODS destiny am living proof of it. My friends always laughed at me when I would say that God was my matchmaker and that he would send me a husband right at my doorstep. My car broke drown one day so I called a tow service for help. That evening when I came home from work someone was knocking at my door it was the tow truck driver with the keys to my car. We just started talking about what happen we got along so well as if we had known each other forever. he started coming over my home day after day we have been married for 26 years, yes I would call that GODS destiny ask and you shell receive.

Answer 4

Destiny exist, the path we choose varies. But we always end up back in the same place where we belong. However, as beautifully put in one of my favorite movies V for Vendetta, "there is no such thing as coincidence. Only the illusion of coincidence."

Answer 5

the only coincidence is that the destiny requires a lot of hard work by both partners to make everything work...

Answer 6

I have In my life been with a lot of woman and only now did I make the choice to the Lord Jesus Christ and I let him lead me and I am In love with a wonderfull woman.

I am truely blessed and I thank the Lord Jesus for bringing us together.
The word of God also says what the Lord brings together nothing can break It apart

Answer 7

In everything there is some form of fate taking a hand. However, you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink. Don't wait for love to bite you on the butt. Go and make it happen!

Answer 8

Things happen the way they do for a reasons,we may never know those reasons.so I guess it is destiny.

Answer 9

I believe in destiny, me and my bf have been together since we were kids.....now we have our own 3 kids......I was 12 when we hooked up and now I'm 22, he was my first and only, I can't see life without him. He's my addiction...I call him crack. *lol*

Answer 10

theres such thing as destiny!!