My friends, which were B/F & G/F just broke up last Friday. There 1 year anniversary would have been Aug 4th. She is really sad because the boy said he only wanted to be friends. She still wants to be with him, but we dont know if he still likes her. He sometimes flirts with other girls. What can i tell her to do because she still wants to go out with him but we dont know if he still wants too?
2006-07-25 11:55:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, if you are friends with the guy too, then you should ask him what's up and why he doesn't want to be with her...the other thing is if the guy is flirting with other girls already and stuff then maybe he doesn't want to be with her and the only thing she can do is accept it. You can't force someone to be with you if they don't want to. But I seriously recommend you find out why the guy broke up with her.
As for the girl, tell her you feel sorry that it ended, but try to keep her mind off the guy and help her focus on things that make her happy like hobbies, friends, nature and etc... if she focuses on things that make her happy then she won't be so sad about that guy. Also, tell her not to worry, she will find someone else sooner or later and he will probably do a better job of keeping her happy and will want to stay with her.
Broken hearts hurt a lot, let her cry it out, but then cheer her up and go do something that is fun and something that will make her laugh ...this way she isn't sad .
2006-07-25 12:03:51 · answer #1 · answered by Strawberry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there time may be up. If the other guy she liked doesnt like her anymore theres nothing much you can do. I guess she will have to move on. The best thing she can do is that or don't put pressure on the other guy then maybe the other guy will soon decide that he misser her or something!! If the Guy Flirts with other girls then the girl is out of luck now. I think if she moves on to a different guy the other guy will be history for her!!!
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2006-07-25 11:57:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I would tell her to ditch the loser. Whether he wants to be with her or not is irrelevant, the fact that he ended it with her has caused her hurt. Tell her that you know what she is going through is hard, but in the long run she will be better off with someone who isn't on again and off again or someone that will ditch her when having her in his live is inconvenient to him.
She needs time away from him (as in cut him out of her life) and time with friends where she can get out and have a good time and forget about the hurt she feels. Even though she doesn't want it to end, the fact is that it did and she needs to start going on with her life.
Tell her I said good luck.
2006-07-25 12:01:24 · answer #3 · answered by Rob K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to grow up and move on. She doesn't have a choice here. Just because she wants to go out with him doesn't mean he feals that way. Obviously, he does not. The only person hurting here is her. Her ex is enjoying himself.
2006-07-25 12:00:36 · answer #4 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can just be there for here but you have to stay impartial or you could lose one or both of your friends. if its meant to be then it wqill work out for them. what you can do is tell the guy to please not flirt or mess around when you are around or your riend is untuil things settle. just tell him your friends with both so you dont want top feel caught in the middle.
2006-07-25 12:00:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to move on and when she gets over the hurt of him tell her I said to date you!
2006-07-25 11:59:32 · answer #6 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if he's flirting with other girls, then i think that he may not want her back and is over her. she should try to move on...
2006-07-25 11:58:29 · answer #7 · answered by baby bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to lighten up, and meet some people.
2006-07-25 11:58:02 · answer #8 · answered by BigPappa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He clearly doesn't want too.
2006-07-25 11:58:11 · answer #9 · answered by someDumbAmerican 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋