should i or should he??
2006-07-25 11:30:39 · 27 answers · asked by cutiecrusher000 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
whatever makes you comfortable. if you think the relationship will be fun, then make the first move. if you don't care either way let him make the first move.
2006-07-25 11:32:10 · answer #1 · answered by Fox 34 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nothing should be set in stone when it comes to this matter.
Tradition says the Male should make the first move. Why? Most likely, the Male makes the first move because he wants to get laid, and soon!
There is nothing wrong with the Female making the first move, BUT, you need to Gage how soon is too soon. For instance, when I first met a woman I knew I would be interested in (not just something to have a mutual sexual relationship then move on), I would take it SLOW. To me, this is my way of showing respect, and letting you know I am interested in something besides sleeping with you.
2006-07-25 18:37:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well As a girl i rather have the guy ask first but remember hes just as nervous as you are to make the first move. So go for it and ask him. If anything he should be impressed =]
Good Luck.
2006-07-25 18:39:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course most of the women in the house say "he should". But it really doesn't matter. If u want to make the first move, it shows that u r quite daring.
2006-07-25 18:33:28 · answer #4 · answered by Mike Jones 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I like it best when the girl moves first. More than just being hot, it shows her eagerness in the situation which quickly is reflected by me. Women with initiative are sexy.
2006-07-25 18:39:55 · answer #5 · answered by Evil Slick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is acceptable both ways. If you want him that bad or know he's shy/doesn't notice you don't be afraid.
Guys are just as afraid half the time and the encouragement helps. If you wait forever he may find someone else.
2006-07-25 19:12:31 · answer #6 · answered by Brian D. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are young,,than wait for him. As an older woman I (as most of my female friends do) go for what i want. Men are constantly talking about how much they hate having to do everything first! The phone call.. asking for the date. the first kiss.. the first time for sex.. Come on women........!!!!!! Get with the program!!!
2006-07-25 18:35:41 · answer #7 · answered by Jm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if u are ready u should...most guys wont try and stop u..most of them are waiting for the right moment and u should give it to him!!! dont be worried or feel like u might get rejected...if ur close to this guy let him no what u want... and im sure he'll be happy u did
2006-07-25 18:36:29 · answer #8 · answered by stephieff09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no a girl should not make the first move on a guy.but if the guy is really shy and you know that he likes you then you should make a move
2006-07-25 18:34:22 · answer #9 · answered by tabbay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be a wimp take some control and ask him. There are a lot of men who like it when a girl asks.
2006-07-25 18:33:13 · answer #10 · answered by lilcrazyman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋