why do women want relationships with rotten men ?

Question

men who are committed to a relationship get walked on while rotten guys who want only sex seem to get devoted girls!

i can tell you that i'm over thirty and was married for seven years . i've also had a relationship for four years. the sex part is easy, three hours of giving multiple orgasms should be good. right now i'm taking time for me.

Answer 1

the majority of women do. its the junk yard dog philosophy. women have been treated so badly that if someone actually treats them properly, they get suspicious and dump on their gentleman beaus.

another reason why they treat aholes like kings is bc an ahole of a guy has no problem physically abusing or mentally tormenting a women.

Answer 2

They don't, they want to 'fix' them and they want to change them, they want to save them from themselves. Some women do tend to get caught up in lost causes, but eventually they figure it out. Good guys only get walked on if they lay down and take it, that doesn't make you a good guy and won't foster any respect from anyone, male or female. I think sometimes those 'good guys' are getting walked on because they are doing the same things as the women are, they are choosing badly in the first place and then trying to 'fix' the person. The fact is that if you are a good guy and you get involved with a good woman you will have a good relationship. If a woman wants a project and someone to fix, let her have that and walk away to continue the search for a good one. If you look in the pig pen you are going to find pigs, meaning keep in mind the places you are meeting these women and question why they are there.

Answer 3

Because rotten men are more inclined to actually ask a woman out than simply stare at her. Rotten men are more agressive, and will push harder for what he wants from her.

So many women have absolutely pitiful self-worth, self-confidence and self-esteem. They stay with these guys because they feel they can't do any better. Besides, it's much easier to be in a relationship when the other person makes the decisions for you. I think most women would prefer a "nice" guy who doesn't act too nice.

Answer 4

Those are the cowards that display a "real-man" image from the outside. In reality, deep inside they just want to have some fun with the wonderful women, caring less about their feelings-hearts most important, where evrything about their inner beauty lies. Yet, they are some devoted women who still stay with such little boys. I don't understand to be frank. What's so great about getting hurt by these immature, insencere, rotten little boys? Those women are smart, but not smart enough to leave them. I honestly hate that. I wish they could just realize it. I'm sure you are a committed guy for typing this question. Trust me, I asked myself that same question a long time ago. At the end, you'll find her. I wish you my best, homie. Laters.

Answer 5

All men take advantage of a situation at some point and get lazy and stop trying in a relationship once they have "landed the babe". So why hook up with the so called "good guy" who is going to drop the ball and make you feel like shi-at eventually anyways, when you can have short term gratification with the experienced, using, loser and have the same ultimate ending?

Answer 6

Ah, the age old question of why doesn't she want me instead of him.

Sadly, many women are attracted to the bad boy image. It's more exciting and they feel like they are doing something dangerous by being with a biker/hood instead of the bookkeeper or librarian. These girls may be with them because of drugs or something else as well.

Hopefully, you will find a nice girl. The ones that will appreciate the fact you want to be committed to a relationship.

Answer 7

apparently rotten men are better at sex.similarly,dirty girls are better at sex.some people are hypnotized by great sex.they're mainly devoted to sex,not commitment.the guys that get walked on are with girls who don't appreciate them.i wouldn't bother with these types and find people who actually care and respect me,instead of the latter.nice guys/girls don't finish last.it's the ones in denial about deserving better that finish last.

Answer 8

I have had a lot of relationships and It was only untill I gave my life to the Lord Jesus Christ that I know have a wonderfull woman In my life.
I had been a player before and I woke up and this life Is the best.

Answer 9

THEY DON'T!!!

Many women just haven't had the expirience to know that they are with a rotten man yet, or haven't found a good guy so they settle for one for the meantime.

Hold on and don't give up. Devoted girls, all they really want is a nice sweet guy like you. If you notice a nice sweet girl, ask her to do something with you like hang out or go out to eat or something. Many times, the nice guys aren't noticed by woman because they aren't going out of their way to get attention like the scum bags. Just be yourself. I know it can happen. My boyfreind is a really sweet guy who was about to give up on girls, but then he just walked up to me and asked me to go to Burger King and I said yes. I was in desperate need of a good guy, and was still haging out to a scum bag from home (just got to college). Girls just want to believe that the bad guys really care about them, and that they can have a good relationship, but deep down they know different. If you can give that to them.....they'll love you!!

Answer 10

I think that most women have low self-esteem and the bad guy play on that. They drag the women down where they think they can't do any better. Just don't give up on finding a good woman.