ok im 13 and my boyfriend wants to have sex with me. and i havent even made out.
help me what should i do explain in details.
2006-07-25 11:16:36 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Absolutely not!!!!
You are too young for sex.
You need to wait until you are old enough to understand the meaning of two people being together.
If he cant wait then he doesnt care for you he cares for himself.
2006-07-25 11:18:59 · answer #1 · answered by PG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl,U R 13 and U want to have sex ?R U crazy ?Does that boy truly loves U ? Is that really what U want ?Girl, if U think that he'll stay with U because U gave him your treasure(pussy),.;.;.U wrong.Girl,if U do that U'll regret ,so just wait,R U in rush?
And U said that U even did made out,so U didn't even kiss him!? AND U'll let him f"""k U,girl don't be stupid.Do U know what's LOVE.The only thing that this boy(trash) will give U IS BEING PREGNANT?R U ready for kids.And he ain't your boyfriend,he just to take advantage of U,satisfying himself.Don't let him think that U R an easy girl (ho)
N.B- Check tha song from Lyfe feat Lala Brown It's called S.E.X and I hpe that it'll open your eyes
2006-07-25 18:32:37 · answer #2 · answered by diana s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
13??? Sex???
You will most definitely NOT do such a thing little one!
You are too young to even talk about sex let alone having it!
Tell your boyfriend that you WILL NOT have sex and he can leave if he does not like it...
Remember he is a teenager just like you are...Ignorant about sex yet deeply wondering what it is like..his hormones are rushing, he wants to explore women etc...Therefore, he will insist. Leave him the minute he does and go for a smarter boy.
You are growing up to be a woman and the #1 rule of being a woman is having self respect and the way to self respect goes from respecting yourself first, valuing your own ideas, personality and decisions so that others can respect them as well.
In the future, you will learn all the tricks men play to have sex ( and there are a lottttt)..the later you learn the better...
Got it little one?
2006-07-25 18:48:42 · answer #3 · answered by Incognito 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should take one step at a time. Don't worry about having sex yet, you only 13 and the right time will come. Make your first time special and don't rush it.
Don't let any boyfriend or anyone make you do things you dont want to do or you are not ready for.
2006-07-25 18:21:13 · answer #4 · answered by kinito_2000_1999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, first, you need to tell him that you're not ready to go through with any of this... tell him that while you like him, it's scary for you to have sex and that you're having your period... tell him that it's against your beliefs to do this so early on and that if he wants to leave because of this, you'll understand... the important thing here is that you indicate that you're in control of this entire situation without actually telling him-guys have big egos and you could hurt his, if you come off really stand-offish... if he still pressures you into this, run!!! there are plenty of great guys your age who wouldn't force you into stuff like that... trust me when i tell you this... i was 13 once too... the more popular a guy is at that age, the bigger a jerk he is! you may not believe me now, but you soon will... and i hope you remember who told you!
2006-07-25 18:25:37 · answer #5 · answered by greaterrome 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you want to have a kid in kindergarten when your friends are entering college, just chill out. He has no idea what he is asking, or the consequences.
If you really have no self control, don't start something you can't finish. He will not die if he doesn't have sex, whatever he tells you, and if he leaves you because of it, be grateful you found out that was all he was interested in.
2006-07-25 18:22:54 · answer #6 · answered by The Muffin Man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all i want to know how old is your boyfriend.and how do you feel about having sex with him right now. to tell you the Truth i really don't think that it's a good thing you are only 13 years old.i think that you should talk to him, and tell him how you feel.the first think that you should do is talk to him ,but your boyfriend down and talk to him there is more to being a girlfriend the just to do what ever he wants you to do.if you have any question about what i said e mail me back
2006-07-25 18:28:33 · answer #7 · answered by tabbay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am thinking that 13 is too young to have sex, but that is your decision to make. I suggest talking to him about your concerns and working something out that is mutually agreeable. If he can't accept you for who you are and what you want, you should find another boyfriend.
You might consider talking to FRIENDS OF YOUR OWN AGE OR SLIGHTLY OLDER or one or both of your parents if you trust them to give you good advice.
2006-07-25 18:21:59 · answer #8 · answered by Sparky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is a loser and you need to dump him like the wind and never, ever look back. I lost my virginity at the age of 14 and it was the worst mistake of my life, even at that age.
2006-07-25 18:20:32 · answer #9 · answered by Flutter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that hes a freak for wanting to have sex with you when your 13...and you should make out with him befor you do anything
2006-07-25 18:19:29 · answer #10 · answered by footballtitans123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋