2006-07-25 11:05:51 · 17 answers · asked by tengurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Men are stupid. They don't know which way is forward. Especially if there's a possibility for a long-term relationship. Or they have a lot of other male friends (giving him advice). Drop him! He will call and when he does. Say Who is this? Mark who? ohh ohhh Marrrrrk. Can I call you right back I'm busy right now. And Never call.
Seriously walk away now while he's giving you the chance. I was in the same situation. I regret not doing it when a guy gave me the chance. It lasted 2 horrible years after that.
2006-07-25 11:11:12 · answer #1 · answered by JulyBaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just to add my 2 cents, but a lot of the time I encounter girls that even after the 4th & 5th dates, still aren't making any effort to call me every now and again and initiate things themselves to set up a date. I don't think I'm out of line for thinking if she's willing to still go out with me 5 times that she must be interested. And well, if it doesn't seem like she's willing to put in any effort, then this makes me think twice about continuing on, cuz I don't want to be always the one that has to call and see what she's doing and set things up.
If it's gonna blossom into a relationship, then she's got to put her effort in too.
As a guy, I just like things like this to occur to let me know that I'm on the right track with things and to get what I call "positive feedback" so I've got incentive to keep the ball rolling.
2006-07-25 11:44:07 · answer #2 · answered by Ginbot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sounds like he ran off. He eather just wanted some fun in the bed or didnt want a relationship, one of the two.
2006-07-25 11:09:12 · answer #3 · answered by lilcrazyman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time period???
1 day -- you are way too clingy
2 days -- he is busy
3 days -- he is busy, or not very virile, otherwise he would be tapping that a**
1 week -- the relationship is not going good, or he is REALLY busy making money to make you happy
2 weeks -- it isn't going good
3 weeks+ -- not only is it not good, he has forgotten your name
1 month -- he doesn't even remember you exist.
2006-07-25 11:11:00 · answer #4 · answered by The Muffin Man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy is afraid of what is around the corner. He decided before he met you that the sowing of the oats would stop one day and moved on to the next field.
2006-07-25 11:09:25 · answer #5 · answered by Wizzerd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you went into the relationship trusting and giving too much of yourself too soon. He's not worth it, chalk it up to experience.
2006-07-25 11:08:44 · answer #6 · answered by Blog Bob 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes when things are that good they get scared cause they may not be ready for it, to them it means that it is going to get realy seriouse and lead to longterm relationship with possibility of marriage. some men get scared and run!
2006-07-25 11:08:29 · answer #7 · answered by Blonds Rock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Straight up....If that's the case... I hate to tell you this, but he was just not into you. He had his fun and now he have moved on. It sounds hard, I know. But most times that's what it is and how it goes... Be strong, keep your head up, forget about him and move on....Best of luck to you.....
2006-07-25 11:16:46 · answer #8 · answered by CupOfJoey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are sissys, there scared but there just afraid to addmit it so they end the relationship to avoid there emotions
2006-07-25 11:08:53 · answer #9 · answered by Kitty Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it was only going good for one of you...
2006-07-25 11:08:19 · answer #10 · answered by Airam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋