Why does most men think a women has to be slim and trim to be perfect for them?

Question

You know us chucky ladys are just as caring, and sometimes more loving than you guys give us credit.

Answer 1

Only shallow guys dig girls with body's! but the relationships never last long! because they are only together for sex! But a strong relationship that depend on trust and love! those are the ones that lasts for years! and your always happy.

You dont have to dress up to be pretty! you just make people happy.

Answer 2

Yes, chuncky women are caring about their next meal, their kids, but do they care as much about how they look as a slim and trim women does?
I say no! If they did the would take better care of their bodies, just as God said to do. But we are not talking about religion here, you want to know why most men, think a women has tobe.....Slim & trim tobe perfect for them, well, join the real world, it's a fact.

Who wants to poke a fatty, raise your hand, guys!

Answer 3

There's a difference between being a bit overweight and being obese. Caring or not, other qualities or not, someone who is truly obese has other issues. It is an outward manifestation of an inward emotional problem. 10 or 20 lbs one way or the other... no big thing. Morbid obesity? There's something wrong on the inside too.
Guys aren't stupid. With all the social pressure and advantage of a woman being fit, for her not to be so represents something fundamentally wrong inside.

Answer 4

We don't! And you are right, women with a little more meat on their bones can be more loving and caring than the skinny ones.

Usually the perception you are infering is based upon a level of maturity, but ultimately, beauty is in the eye of the beholder and perfection is not based solely about what is on the outside.

Answer 5

i don't think liking healthy women is shallow. We're naturally attracted to a certain type of woman. It's human nature. Just like women are attracted to handsome and successful guys. We give you credit for being caring human beings, but it's very hard for us to go against our nature and find chunky women attractive. Some birds go for the most colorful mate. It's no different in the human world.

Answer 6

I've always had a good laugh, when I hear some guys, talking about some hot girl, walking by, and say how much they would love to have her.
The girl, wouldn't touch them with a forty foot pole, most are out of shape, and with a face, that only their mother can love.
Why they don't prefer, shall we say, like a chubby girl, I have no idea.
I've dated a few in my time, and found them to be fun, erotic, and very, very good in bed. Personally, I dont like holding a bunch of bones in my arms. Give me that little extra padding, nice and soft to ones touch.

Answer 7

I think a lot of men are conditioned to think that way by the media. Concepts of beauty have changed over the centuries. Either way, outer appearances are only of secondary importance.
:-)

Answer 8

Yes, I'm sure you are. I'm not chunky, in pretty good shape, and I'd like to have a chick who's also in good shape. However, I don't see what's wrong with chunky guys going after chunky girls! However, a lot of them don't; they think while they're fat, they can chase after the slender women, which at times seems unrealistic, to me.

Answer 9

because some men are just self- centered they need a good looking girl with a great body to show off to the guys...

Answer 10

Girl don't give up. They are out there. I had one guy drop me because I dropped 30 pounds. I wasn't comfortable with myself; it wasn't about them. If they can't see and accept you as you are now (as long as you love yourself) then you don't want them anyway, they will just turn out to be a big disappointment.