He broke up with me last year because It was sorta long distance and he liked another girl.We said some words to each other and didn't talk that often.If we did talk,it was in email.He emailed the other day and asked how my life was and latley everything has been going all wrong.I told him everything and he asked if he could take me to a movie to make it better.I'm not sure if it's a joke or not.What do I do?
2006-07-25 10:50:59 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
have some self_respect and dont do it......he didnt want you then, now he wants something to tide him over until the next one comes along....move on.
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2006-07-25 10:52:39 · answer #1 · answered by zoinks22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No Just Get Over Him And Everything Will Be Better Just Dont Go Look He Left U For Another Girl......Now U Figure It Out From There.
2006-07-25 10:54:45 · answer #2 · answered by xBabyliciousNenax 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, so now he's probably without the other girl that he liked and is feeling kind of lonely....and what a better way to have a nice evening then inviting someone who he's sure is not doing anything else other than sitting around and waiting for him to call. Go to the movie, enjoy the evening out and expect nothing more than that...that kind of behavior has trouble written all over it but at least you'd get a free movie out of it.
2006-07-25 10:56:27 · answer #3 · answered by Syrann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you single? Would you want to get back with him? Would you want to keep it on a friend level and could he do that? These are questions you have to answer for yourself. If you are single and think you may want to try again with him,then go. If your scared he is joking email him back and say it depends on the movie. Then you can tell by his answer. The last suggest I have is that before it gets serious again you make sure your both on the same page as far as what you expect from the relationship.
2006-07-25 10:53:21 · answer #4 · answered by Suesan W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about it this way....regardless of why things didn't work out, what was he doing with his time before his sudden desire to make you feel better? Sometimes when we are going through some stuff and our world seems upside down there are specific people we should not go to....the ex being one of them. See if you can work through whatever is troubling you on your own or through the advice of someone else you hold dear. Be wary of him though he might just be looking for a little play.
2006-07-28 04:04:35 · answer #5 · answered by Jessie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would it be a joke? Who jokes like that?
Maybe he means what he said, that he just wants to be nice to you to help make you feel better.
If you still have deep romantic feelings for him, then perhaps you should not go, because it will become awkward if he does not feel the same.
On the other hand, if you simply like him as a friend, then what's the big deal? Free movie!
2006-07-25 10:55:01 · answer #6 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if he feels bad about what he has done, most likely things are not going good for him with other women right now. I hate to say it, but even if you guys about get back together, not long after that he'll probably find another woman to go back to. Some of us guys are just like that. Sad, but true.
2006-07-25 10:54:08 · answer #7 · answered by merlin_steele 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, u gotta lay the ground rules early...whatever this is, a 'date' or otherwise, make sure theres no expectations...u gotta ask urself why this guy is hittin u up now all of a sudden and if u actually wanna go and what you want out of it, if anything? it might be friendly, u might think that way, but maybe hes lookin for something more?
2006-07-25 10:53:15 · answer #8 · answered by af4sguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only go if you think you like him again. If not, don't even bother. Just remember why he's called your ex. My ex did the same thing. I wasn't really interested, and he wasn't crushed or anything, so I'm pretty sure that you should only go if you truely are interested in him again, and not just flattered that he asked you to a movie.
2006-07-25 10:54:01 · answer #9 · answered by elena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure he's not joking around because, if i had a friend and things weren't going to great for her i would try to do every thing to make them feel better. so go out and have fun, cuz staying home being mad isn't gana get you any where.
2006-07-25 10:56:13 · answer #10 · answered by FlAwL3ss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to go with him to a movie? If you do say something like, "Sure, you buy the tickets and I'll get the popcorn." If he's serious, he will continue the conversation. You take it from there.
2006-07-25 10:54:38 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋