My guy avoids answering questions by asking the same question back or just not answering. What does this mean?

Question

I've noticed over the last few months that the man I'm seeing rearely answers questions. He mostly just asks the questions back to me or changes the subject. It really gets to me. Most are simple questions that he can answer with a yes or no. What does this mean. I don't think he's just trying to get me to think about what I'm asking. It's simple "did you get enough sleep?" "Do you think I got enough sleep?" I curious if this is him trying to be mysterious or is he being evasive. Someone told me it means he's defensive. Someone help explain.

Answer 1

Leave him, he's a loser. You need a man that you can actually have a converstation with. Even if it's just about simple things like "what did you have for dinner. All men have issues, your job as a women is to find the man with the least issues.
Good Luck

ps. the men with social issues are hard to bring around family and friends. Everyone will think he is annoying, rude, or wierd.

Answer 2

That's quite a story. I think you need to look at the scenario objectively - pretned you were answering someone else's question - and think, should that nice guy really be getting involved with a girl with that history? What's to say she won't be picking from your wallet next? Sorry to be harsh. If she's messaging you all day, that's not love - that's clinging, smothering, desparate need for attention and support. She needs professional help, because 24/7 attention is not something you will be able to or should have to give to her. It's 100% normal for you to fall for her when you've been working hard on her behalf and supporting her - but look before you leap. If she won't answer when you ask if she likes you - isn't that an answer in itself?

Answer 3

He is being evasive, and when you run into this type of male, the best thing you can do is leave him alone.Take a hint from him ask him "Do you think this relationship is over??" when he asks you the same question in reverse, just answer yes and remove your bags and self from the premises. By the way you might want to start packing your things now, so that you will be prepared to make you exit.

Answer 4

It's a power trip thing....he is now controlling the conversation. Either that, or he is just dumb and doesn't know how to answer a question. If I were you, when he asks a question back, I would walk away and not answer him. He's trying to be controlling and if it is just questions now, imagine how bad it will get later.

Answer 5

Usually when someone repeats the question that was asked its because they are trying to buy time to think of a lie. What you described above sounds to me like he's being sarcastic and snotty. Almost like your getting on his nerves. Either way it doesn't sound good but I would say he's lying.

Answer 6

It means he's being duplicitous. How is that you women never seem to understand your own tactics when they are used back on you. When a guy becomes passive/aggressive you all are so blown away when you do it 95% of the time.

Answer 7

I'd find that extremely annoying...talk to him about it...there's no need to answer a question with another question...if you knew the answer, why would you have asked?

Answer 8

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Answer 9

Your boyfriend wants to be a woman. Thats how they answer questions.

Answer 10

maybe he lost interest in you. it happens a lot in relationships, ust like when u get an iPod. like at first, u want it sooooo bad then u got it and u have fun with it but week after week, you get tired of it. that's how it is, i guess