Is he interested???

Question

I met this guy on Vacation in January- we hooked up (had sex) there, - since then have talked on MSN every day, because we live 2500miles apart (usually for about 2 hours). I am re-locating to his city in a few weeks (coinsidence) & we are super excited to see each other.

We talk about the things he likes about me, and make plans for when i arrive-to see shows & go places. He sends me songs that he thinks I would like, there's sexual undertones in our covos sometimes, & the other day he asked "am i going to have to stay out of trouble when you get here". We talk about EVERYTHING. Except whether or not he likes me.

I kind of get the friend vibe-cause he makes reference to other girls. But then the next day will tell me he is horny (Hello Mixed signals!!!) I dont want to push the line incase he is not interested and will ruin the friendship with the 1 person i know-miles from home.

Do you think he is into me & should I i go for him-or is this just a friend thing??

Answer 1

He spends two hours every day, talking to you on MSN, seems to me, he likes you.
And if he's telling you he's horny, it means he remembers that time you had sex, and wants it again.
Now, some guys, will do anything for sex, so you have to take what he says sometimes with a grain of salt.
At least, you will be able to spend real time with him now, and it's much easier for you to get a real handle on his feelings for you then.
Just don't commit yourself, until you are sure, and don't jump back into bed, until you are sure. Unless, it's what you want, and you accept that it's just sex, not love, then.

Answer 2

I think it is just a friend thing. If he wanted to be with you you would know but be careful I suspect he is hoping you will become a fu*ck buddy when you move out!