i have a gf, we have been going out off and on for about a month, and we split up before we went on vacation and she had a bf but it didnt work out, so then i asked her out again the other day and she said yes but she also said she was tired of being hurt and so am i. so then today im chatting with this girl on the webcams, and she flashes me, then masturbates and shows me, and i was of course stupid and did the same for her. she lives alot closer than my gf does too. like only an hour away. idk if i should break up with my gf and go out with her, or what i should do
2006-07-25 09:49:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ew.
~Because sometimes it is rocket science.~
2006-07-25 10:15:32 · answer #1 · answered by cheekandfolly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To me, cyber sex is not cheating. It's the same as watching a porno and masturbating. But just wanting to break up with your g/f because you did this one time shows that you really don't care about your g/f. Don't hurt her, that is all she asked. So make the decision. Maybe you and her need to get a little more exotic and adventurous in your sex life
2006-07-25 10:02:24 · answer #2 · answered by Mousey M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pick one BUT keep in mind that most likely you are not the only dude this female is doing this with, and yes it seem fun and exciting but it gets tired real quick.
Here's a question,
what is she doing on the pc showing herself like this, if she is so hot and such a catch how come she is single?
What is she REALLY like?
Hm mm
Have you even given your current gf a chance to freak you out like that? If you do not try how do you know?
You could have a closet freak on your hands, you know?
2006-07-25 09:58:08 · answer #3 · answered by crystlizm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to think about the new girl- if it works out, great- if not, looks like its time to bounce back to the old one, again...
No, its not cheating- you were having fun- enjoy it! Now, if you go out with her, then its time to come clean and cut one loose of date both if they are not exclusively dating you...
If you end up with the new girl- be aware that she might enjoy that and get used to it- accept it, or it will drive you two apart!
Its easier to take the girl out of the party than the party out of the girl!
2006-07-25 10:00:40 · answer #4 · answered by worxsigns 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to question it then it is cheating. So in this case... yes!
2006-07-25 09:56:30 · answer #5 · answered by dani_sanders86 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol, hell no. did you touch her? no. then who cares. now if you go and bang her you are guilty as sin.
2006-07-25 09:55:50 · answer #6 · answered by bored_army_soldier 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its only cheatin if u get caught
2006-07-25 09:54:39 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when did you touch her, it was not cheating, may not have been moral but it was not cheating.
2006-07-25 09:56:05 · answer #8 · answered by jojoB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget it. where's the evidence? you both enjoyed it and thats that.
2006-07-25 09:54:57 · answer #9 · answered by marabierto1961 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating!!!! That is definetly cheating!! Think about it ..........hard!!
2006-07-25 09:59:46 · answer #10 · answered by hunniebun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋