Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 weeks now....When do u think is the best time for me to start telling him...I love him?
2006-07-25 09:43:57 · 34 answers · asked by Miss-Boo-T-Full 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hmmm thats a hard one..i wouldnt jump on it cause you might scare him...id 1st start talkin to him about your feelings and ask him about his..thats what i did with my boyfriend..i fell in love with him so quick i didnt know what to do, so i talked to him about it..and when he was ready to feel the same he whishpered i love you in my ear on valentines day on our date.
2006-07-25 09:46:29 · answer #1 · answered by taytayjomar 2 · 20⤊ 4⤋
Three weeks sounds like just a bit too soon to be telling someone that you love them. Sounds like this is either your first boyfriend EVER or the first one in a LOOOONG time and you might just be loving the attention that he is giving you. Everything is seen through rose colored glasses at the beginning of every relationship. He is trying to impress you into not seeing him as just another jerk and you are trying not to see him as someone who may be there to just hit it and split. Only time will really tell if he is worthy of those three very special, very powerful words, so just be patient and see how it works out from here. If you come on too needy and desperate, which you will be if you tell this guy that you love him after ONLY three weeks, then he will only end up doing 1 of 2 things : 1. he will say it back to you but not mean it and then go running for the hills telling everyone that he met this crazy girl that told him she loved him after such a short time, or 2. He will use the fact that you have genuine feelings for him to his full advantage and use you till he doesn't need you anymore. Either way, you end up hurt and miserable and I don't think that's the effect you're going for. So just slow down and let the test of time tell you when it's right. Hope this helps!
2006-07-25 13:11:46 · answer #2 · answered by qtee425 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all, you have to remember...it's only been 3 weeks. That's not time enough to tell whether it's just an infatuation or actual love. Give it a lot more time hun, and when you're absolutely, positively sure that u do love him, then go right ahead. But just remember, if you're not sure that you really love him truely, you could end up hurting his feelings in the end.
2006-07-25 09:48:52 · answer #3 · answered by elena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In about 3 months 4 days and 4 hours.
2006-07-25 09:46:01 · answer #4 · answered by El Pistolero Negra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him if and when you actually do love him. If you tell him that you love him already (that would be a little far fetched) then he'll likely run for the hills. Relax and enjoy the best part of dating (the beginning) and don't get caught up in thinking that these have have a timeline.
2006-07-25 09:48:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm....wait until he says it. Or when you feel like he wants to say it but feels too awkward to.
3 weeks is quick, you don't want him thinking you're a nut-job. Give it some time, enjoy going out with him and don't worry about 'love' just yet!
2006-07-25 09:46:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you do. Three weeks is not long enough to know if you love someone. Wait at least 3 months -- then think about it again.
2006-07-25 09:46:43 · answer #7 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on each person and how mature each one of them is. It is when a person is mature they stand a good chance of knowing what love is, how to show it, how to express it, how to receive it and give it back. So a person who is mature would know that it is almost impossible to know if you love someone in as little as three weeks.
2006-07-25 09:56:21 · answer #8 · answered by justduh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait for more 3 weeks
2006-07-25 09:46:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you ever seen HITCH?? (with Will Smith) you know the scene when he tells his girlfriend from college that he loves her, that really freaked her :) you should tell him that you love him whenever you feel like.. but be careful if he is romantic he will respond to that, if not images of a married couple with five kids and no job will go trough his mind and .... that's not good
2006-07-25 09:51:11 · answer #10 · answered by iulibball 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well 3 weeks is a lil short to tell him u love him but u shld tell him when u feel comfortable
2006-07-25 09:45:47 · answer #11 · answered by Fashion247 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋