most women think that after a break up we are the only ones that cry and think whether or not we made the right decision or if we want the other person back or if we will ever be able to find someone else.....but dont alot of guys think the same thing?
2006-07-25 09:22:41 · 14 answers · asked by MsNic 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes. Anytime I have invested my time and heart in a relationship it hurts when it falls apart. I always wonder if I could have done something different. The emotions usually go like this: 1. shock 2. anger 3. sadness 4. jealousy (if there is a new man) 5. anger again 6.) then a combo hit of all of them the dangerous sad jealous anger (where we usually screw up big time) and finally a phone call to see if there is any chance.
2006-07-25 09:32:56 · answer #1 · answered by woodybmi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure "credit" is the term I'd use but yeah we think a lot of the same things. Probably not so much "If I'd have just done . . . . things would have been OK" though. Seems to me women place the blame internally more than guys and that's too bad. Read somewhere that it's actually tougher on guys.
2006-07-25 16:28:22 · answer #2 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, women "probably" give men way too much credit. Deep down, most men just are not that deep. I would like to say "we", but I will just speak for myself. I am complex but simple. I just ended a 3 year relationship and I feel horrible...did I do the wrong thing...did I cause her pain. Very uncomfortable emotions! Not to mention the abject paranoia...is there really someone out there for me??? I never cease to be amazed at the depth of most women's emotions. God Bless the Feminine Mystique...and you too!
2006-07-25 16:36:08 · answer #3 · answered by bluejets13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually, yes, MsNic, you do give them too much credit. Many men are selfish, single-minded lunkheads. But there are guys out here that know that crying is good for the soul, and, yes, we do think the same thing.
2006-07-25 16:27:43 · answer #4 · answered by Flame 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I actuality it all depends on the guy and the situation he came from, it would be the same for you, if it was someone who we cared about we may think that but if we desperately want out nope, lets keep moving.
2006-07-25 16:25:18 · answer #5 · answered by Paktown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes we do, everyone does unless the relationship was a total mess and only one person wanted to be in it.
2006-07-25 16:24:50 · answer #6 · answered by Clint R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I know I sure would. I haven't been through a breakup, but I know that if I ever had to, then yes, most definitely.
2006-07-25 16:26:00 · answer #7 · answered by M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not true at all if the girl cheats on me ill cry and think why me
2006-07-25 16:27:25 · answer #8 · answered by scott_college_romantic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I actually had an ex boyfriend who cried because he knew he did me wrong.
2006-07-25 16:25:15 · answer #9 · answered by vhat40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually, yes - if you're like me, we don't usually show our feelings, especially to one another though.
2006-07-25 16:24:36 · answer #10 · answered by lagunium 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋