i feel that my dad has resentment with me, he doesn't accept me for who i am, he is always trying to change me, the why i dress, the way i look., everything about me he hates. And i have 23 years old, he always screming at me, yelling. I have a carrer and he treat me like a thing. He never listen, Im so tyred and sad, wha can I do?
2006-07-25 09:18:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
I hope you're not living at home. I wish there was a way to cheer you up, but this is a little out of my reach. I hope you have a friend nearby, one to whom you can talk to. I mean he's you dad, however, some parents think they own their children. If he is screaming then
he's out of control. Avoid him if it is possible, plan to make a move if you live at home.
Be good to yourself
2006-07-25 09:27:10 · answer #1 · answered by The Stranger 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are 23 years old and have a CAREER why are you still under Dad's roof? And what kind of career can let you get by with not knowing how to spell? If you want to stop feeling sad, get independent, work hard, and prove to yourself that you are worthwhile. And take a good hard look at yourself. Does the way you dress, the way you look, the person you are portray a mature adult with good work ethics, good morals, high standards? Or does Dad have a point you might consider? Do you need to improve a few things about yourself? If not, you may need to distance yourself from your dad.
2006-07-25 16:32:48 · answer #2 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is any way for you to do it, move out of the house and find a place of your own or with a roommate. This doesn't solve the problem, but it gets you out of an atmosphere where someone is always criticizing you and making you feel uncertain about yourself. If sounds like your dad is a very controlling person.
2006-07-25 16:24:10 · answer #3 · answered by clarity 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know you are comfortable with your life and He needs to give you more respect. The father figure does not mean he can continue to treat you bad. The sooner you speak up the better it will be. You are old enough to be on you own and getting away could be very good for you. Grow up and do not take abuse from anyone.
2006-07-25 16:23:12 · answer #4 · answered by mr conservative 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 23 that is pretty normal Are you still living in the home?
Perhaps it's time to get out of the nest?
2006-07-25 17:09:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all---GET OVER IT. Your an adult. You don't have to be around him. Some people are just bitter and resentful of everyone, sounds like your Dad is one these people. Good Luck to you.
2006-07-25 16:22:56 · answer #6 · answered by skynickie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look inside, find out what you want and let dad find some other poor sucker to abuse. Life is first about you. It is good to try to get along with others, but no one is required to be another's whipping boy. basta!
2006-07-25 16:23:20 · answer #7 · answered by doktordbel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohhh i m so sorry for that
first step : he has to change his attitude
second step he has to accept u who u r
third step : try to solve problem, just talk to face to face with him and figure out he really care abt u or not?
fourth step : if not then think just separate yrself from his home u grown enought dont u.....
good luck
2006-07-25 16:25:49 · answer #8 · answered by pinks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Heavenly Father will always be there for you and love you for who you are. Try talking to him he will listen.
2006-07-25 16:28:04 · answer #9 · answered by James F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you're grown. but say it with a cool attitude. let him know that you're not his little angel. but you're a mature woman who can make decisions.
2006-07-25 20:37:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋