im giving her a cd a flowers- ive told her twice i was sorry and it worked, never hit her or cheated on her just mess up alot. should i give her the cd with the song " ON BENDED KNEE" and flowers or someone else to do it. so she has to think bout it alone. and should she be alone to hear it or have my sister there too to help me with getting her back...we have a 1 yr old together
2006-07-25 09:17:53 · 4 answers · asked by The 1 u need 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Keep trying.. she has to know that you are going to change.. maybe send her a letter with the flowers telling her how you have messed up that you realize it and that you want to change for the better. Let her know how much she and you kid mean to you... and you never know.
2006-07-25 09:24:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am soo sorry! I'll tell you what to do. Go up to her when she is alone. No flowers or CD's. And ask her what you did wrong. Tell her that you love her and that life isn't the same without her. Tell her you can't live without her. Crying helps. Bend down on both knees and say, " Baby, I love you. I can't stand to be without you. I miss seeing your beautiful smile. It is hard for me to eat. It is hard for me to sleep. It's hard for me to be without you. You mean everything to me! Every night I pray that you will come back. I love you and I misss you sooo much and I miss being a family! I realized that no gifts would help with you being mad at my behavior, but I just couldn't control myself, I want you back ssooooo badly. I just don't know what I can say to get that wonderful feeling back in my life. You are the only thing that makes me smile. You are beautiful and caring and loving and..... I miss that." If she doesn't say anything immediently, walk away. That will just make her want you more. And a week later send 4 dozen roses to her work place and make a little card to go on each dozen that says, " I am a dozen times sorry" I wish you the best of luck with your gf and your child!!!!!
2006-07-25 16:34:02 · answer #2 · answered by Fook Yu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well all i can say this might of been the straw that broke the camel's bck. give her some time and see if she wants 2 talk if not move on and learn for the next girl.
2006-07-25 16:22:31 · answer #3 · answered by soloyo67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste so much time trying to win her back, she will come home when she's ready.
2006-07-25 16:21:16 · answer #4 · answered by nolyad69 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋