alwats say im too good to be true. i mean i date them for a little while and they get scared of there emotions when they find out that im an honest nice sweet person. i mean isnt that what you all want. should i be a jerk. it seems those guys always get the good ones and ruin them for the real men
2006-07-25 09:16:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Damn and the sad part is that is actually true....well for me it was because i feel i am not ready i met this great guy and i want to take it very slow because i need to know what i want with my life and him...i need to know that i am ready to start a relationship that is nice....i figure us women do it because some are not ready and don't want to mess it up if they do jump in the hear of the hole.....
2006-07-25 09:20:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will STRONGLY urge you to just be patient, because being sweet and honest and caring is going to land you a girl who you can be happy to spend the rest of your life with one day. If you turn into a jerk and aren't being yourself, then the right girl is gonna pass you by. If a girl doesn't want to be with you cuz she doesn't know how to handle you being "too good to be true", then you should move on anyways. I went out with jerks in the past, and that was because I had alot of problems and wasn't confident about the fact that someone may actually love me more me and want to be with me forever. Now that I am ready to settle down, I wish I could call back all those "really nice guys" and have them give me another chance, and I would appreciate them so much. Don't change, hang in there.......and be the nice person you are, it will be worth it. Nice guys are the best!
2006-07-25 16:24:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang in there my friend. I too was once one of those women who loved a bad boy (for the challenge I suppose). I am now and forever a "nice guy" lover. Would NEVER go back to a bad boy. Too much drama, bulls*((t, and headaches.
I am currently with a really, really nice man and YES I deserve him!!!! All boils down to the woman's self-esteem. Meet someone who is confident and self-assured and she'll see you are a blessing.
2006-07-25 16:21:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women do like a man like that but yet men like this also get to emotional to quick and it scares women. So becareful you don't let you emtions get out to soon because it scares us.
2006-07-25 16:25:25 · answer #4 · answered by browneyegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the world good man does not get a good women. because they does not know how to express inner them on right way. and they do same stuffs which are not need it in life.that all need to be natural,came just easy and not to much.
2006-07-25 16:26:08 · answer #5 · answered by IcyQueen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, alot of girls have dated jerks in the past and they may just be afraid of being hurt again....buuuut i can definitly understand y this must frusterate u....but don't worry there r still lots of girls out there that will be able to c u 4 who u truly r!
Goodluck
2006-07-25 16:24:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you're a bit older to start looking for relationships. Good girls do exist, you just have to find them (I found my fiance on MySpace )
2006-07-25 16:19:24 · answer #7 · answered by nolyad69 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I know and hey i'm looking for that right man also could it be you
2006-07-25 16:19:25 · answer #8 · answered by sweetie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it happens the same for girls too. all the sluty girls get all the guys and the good girls finish last.
2006-07-25 16:20:38 · answer #9 · answered by APgurl-NY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a warning for you..if you become a jerk the girls will leave you.
2006-07-25 16:19:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋