So many people seem to enjoy sex alot!!! Men and women both... So why is rape a factor? Can these men/women that do it not get laid? Is it purely about the sex that they badly want to have and really sexually wanting the person they are raping? Or is it really out of the need to control and in pure spite and anger that rape is a way to take away from those who really like and yearn for the sex in the first place? Men are raped just like women are... I just want to know why?
2006-07-25 09:10:27 · 18 answers · asked by shy&gental 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Rape is about power and control, not sex. If a woman was not in the mood and clearly did not want to have sex with me, I would instanlty lose my sex drive. So it's not about the physical act but about the power over someone else.
I doubt the weirdos could actually have regular sex.
2006-07-25 09:15:51 · answer #1 · answered by alabamakevin 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
rape is NOT about someone not getting laid. the "purpose" of rape is to show the other person you are stronger and you have controll over them and you can do whatever you want. It is a very selfish act and women make up 98% of the people that get raped. Men dont go thru it as much. Coming to think about it its kinda hard to rape a guy. I have personally never known or heard of a guy getting raped.
2006-07-25 16:17:59 · answer #2 · answered by beantheredonethat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
--Rape is a weapon of power and control. Me over you. you over me. Sex is merely a by-product. However I did date a girl who totally into simulated rape and it was okay for a while, but the longer we went out the more brutal and controlling she wanted me to be. This girl would never use the cut word, no matter what I did. Eventually it was time to get out of dodge when she wanted me to do some things that were so far out of bounds it isn't even discussable.
2006-07-25 16:19:26 · answer #3 · answered by raiderking69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rape isn't sex, there's nothing loving or caring about it.....rape is an act of violence. Go to the library and get some books on this subject and educate yourself. It'll take more the Yahoo Answers to do that.
2006-07-25 16:14:54 · answer #4 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Rape is not about sex.....It's a psychological disorder in which you need to intimidate, and or control your prey, they get their enjoyment out of the fact that you are scared!........Another little newsflash, if a person is going to be a rapist ot a murderer the that is instilled in their minds by the age of 6 years!
2006-07-25 16:15:16 · answer #5 · answered by Karen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rape and sex is 2 different things.People who rape just want control and are pervs.Sex is being done with consenting people,hopefully adults.
2006-07-25 16:13:54 · answer #6 · answered by Male Sicilian Trauma Nurse 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A desire for power and control over a non-consenting victim
The acting out of hostility, aggression, and anger
A sense of dominance and self-validation through the humiliation and degradation of another
2006-07-25 16:16:23 · answer #7 · answered by clueless_idiot 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
rape is not about sex but about power. the rapist is finally incontrol of someone, sex is jus the act they chose to use. depends ont he person some of them have been abuse themselves and r getting bck so they think @ the person who abuse them. alot depends on the person who is commiting the act and what kind of baggage they r bring n with them when they commit such a crime
2006-07-25 16:15:59 · answer #8 · answered by soloyo67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want to be raped by a white skinny girl from houston
2006-07-25 16:15:03 · answer #9 · answered by Khan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rape is an act of violence, except in cases where a minor is involved, then it is a legal term. sex for enjoyment is when the couple enjoys it.
2006-07-25 16:14:28 · answer #10 · answered by smiths j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋