2006-07-25 09:06:24 · 12 answers · asked by courtney n 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if your debating: then dont do it.
2006-07-25 09:09:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi there. I would say NO you should not do it. It's good that you are carefully thinking about this decision before you go through with it, because it is a very BIG one. When you have sex with someone, it DOES change things, and not for the better. Once you do it, you cannot go back, and it is not special anymore. It is only special between a husband and a wife. I cry sometimes becuase I gave my virginity away at a young age, and also because it made me think of sex as something SEPARATE than love. God made sex for people who love each other enough to be married, not for young people who are curious. It is normal to be curious, and with all the stuff on tv and movies, we all think that everyone is doing it. THEY ARE NOT all doing it. I have decided to not have sex not until I am married, and I am much happier. You should talk to a pastor or couselor if you need more advice, and also ask God to give you strength to resist temptation to have sex, and to wait until you are with a man who will love you forever. If you feel like this guy will love you forever, well then you have plenty of time.
2006-07-25 16:16:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't do it coz u never know, maybe u not gonna be together (get married) & so if u loose ur virginity u gonna regret it for the rest of ur life coz this is very important in ur life and everyone else wishes they are virgins but are not for some reasons. Just wait till the right time comes, and Good Luck!
2006-07-25 17:20:51 · answer #3 · answered by chicho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF your old enough and take precautions then why not? You sound like you have some doubts but you have not included them so cant help there just speak about these with somrone you trust and you will come to the right conclusion.
2006-07-25 16:13:23 · answer #4 · answered by leepato1970 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have doubts, then you shouldn't. Wait until you are absolutely certain and that he's not just some guy. Make sure you love him and are in love with him. It will be better that way. I think you should wait until you are sure it's something you definitely want to do.
2006-07-25 16:15:14 · answer #5 · answered by lexicam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ur BOTH ready and comfortable with it then yes. there's nothing worse than not being sure about it but doing it anyway only 2 really regret it afterwards. it can really mess with ur mind at times.
2006-07-25 17:00:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No ,you will know when it is right,dont bow to pressure from him or your peers.Wait until you are both old and mature enough to enjoy it legally and use contraceptive to safeguard yourself !
2006-07-25 16:12:50 · answer #7 · answered by any 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, i dont think it would be a smart choice coz if you lose your virginity to someone you will remember that person for the rest of your life.
2006-07-25 16:09:39 · answer #8 · answered by theguru_10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if one of you has doubts i wouldn't but if its what you both want and are ready for any adult things that happen afterwards like pregnancy, diseases etc. then its your both decision. so do what you think is right.
2006-07-25 16:10:49 · answer #9 · answered by alexia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look, the top and bottom of it is, if you are ready to do it and he is up for it, then why not? your first love is not always your only love but that does not mean spread it about and always use protection.......... most of all don't take it seriously and enjoy it!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-25 16:17:12 · answer #10 · answered by mickey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask then NO
2006-07-27 08:53:38 · answer #11 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋