i met this guy a year ago at this hotel sports bar, and i had a boyfriend at the time. something about the guy i met (we'll call him B) i couldnt stop thinking about him. me and B hooked up after i broke up with my boyfriend and then we would hang out and hook up and stuff. i didnt think that him and i were anything more then friends with bennifits, but then i started seeing other guys and when i'd tell B and then B would rush right over to see me and then tell me that he has all these feelings for me and i always fall for it, but we never actually start dating as boyfriend/girlfriend. and then i found a new guy and i didnt believe B and went with my new boyfriend and then B kept begging me to go back with him for like 3 weeks. then recently i broke up with my boyfriend and 2 days after i did B started calling me again and he's come over to my house twice since i started talking to him, but i dont know what to do cause i dont know what he wants from me without asking him. HELP ME!
2006-07-25 09:05:14 · 5 answers · asked by Ashley Rose 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i just heard the funniest thing. dude said that men arent complicated women are.... haha.
2006-07-26 08:05:48 · update #1
nobody is a mind reader hun. You just need to ask him what it is he really wants. He doesn't want to be gf/bf but yet he wants you. If you want the gf/bf don't settle for less. Your just gonna have to ask him......Plus you need to learn how to communicate with him. It seems as if he cares for you so if he does then I'm not sure why he doesn't want to make a commitment with you. I think I would kick him to the curb for good if he doesn't want to make a commitment.
2006-07-25 09:16:59 · answer #1 · answered by browneyegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahhh....hence the problem....men are not complicated. In fact, we think so little that it would scare you to know. B is following his male parts. When he can't have you, he wants you even more. He gets to have you without dating you. What is so complicated? If you think that this guy has some master plan then you just don't know men yet. He wants a beer, a ball game and a b-j....Stop worrying and lay out your demands!
2006-07-25 16:16:12 · answer #2 · answered by Cage 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
really what are you thinking if you arent into him with the exception of the occassional booty call then drop him cause its you i cant figure out. he says he wants to be with you whats so complicated about that and besides women are so much more complicated then men
2006-07-26 04:35:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think they're very complicated. just ask him wut the hell? if he wants 2 go out and u do 2, go out already!
2006-07-25 16:13:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he loves u alot, by wat u r telling me anyways, so in other words he wants u!
2006-07-25 16:16:03 · answer #5 · answered by trashman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋