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when a guy says " say" he loves you what do you do? Are they serious or just playing around with your emotions.

2006-07-25 09:02:45 · 28 answers · asked by kite31313 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

28 answers

There is no real answer to this question but what I have learned of what love is to me and that is the word LOVE itself holds the answer.......

(L)isten: and validate them by hearing and empathizing.
(O)verlook: their minor character flaws as they will overlook yours.
(V)alue: who they are and what they mean to you.
(E)xpress: how you love them not just with words but with actions.

2006-07-27 12:44:28 · answer #1 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 2 0

Lol, well luv is what ever you want it to be really. It can be great, it can be kind, compassionate, as well as abusive, it really depends on you. I now that when a guy says he luv's you at that point in time he can't be more serious bout it, but that doesn't mean that after that moment he'll still be that serious bout it. I have said it to women that I felt I luv'd and at that point I did, but l8r figured out it wasn't luv I was feeling just lust. but well you can't tell a women you lust her. lol so the word luv comes out. Luv is complicated you don't really know your in luv but you can feel and see it. Cause luv real luv is capable of anything. Life and Death fall short of it's real power. And as what to do believe the guy when he says he luv's ya but remember make sure it's luv that he's feeling and not lust.

2006-07-25 09:16:41 · answer #2 · answered by raider_way 3 · 0 0

If a guy says he loves you after the first month he' s playing games. If loves you he should wait at list 6 months to say it...

2006-07-25 09:11:22 · answer #3 · answered by becki 1 · 0 0

Between the ages of 10 and 20, I'd say 90% of them don't actually mean it. The 10% that do are probably people you're not interested in.

2006-07-25 09:04:10 · answer #4 · answered by Axel 4 · 1 0

"Love has nothing to do with what you are expecting to get, it's what you are expected to give -- which is everything." and
"The best proof of love is trust."
so if any one comes and says I LOVE U, then one should not play around wit emotions.
and depends on the feeling your boy have on you also and the type and seriousness in your relationship.
i hope i answered your question.
all the best.

2006-07-25 09:09:00 · answer #5 · answered by Sudheendra Rayabhagi 4 · 0 0

It depends on how serious your relationship is. If it's not a serious relationship, he's probably just trying to get some. You could always just ask him.

2006-07-25 09:09:13 · answer #6 · answered by lexicam 2 · 0 0

Depends, if not a long time friend or bf he is just playing around, or trying to get some.

2006-07-25 09:04:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

love is the only thing that comes without giudelines, its something that a lot of people take for grantid, its like the feeling you get when your pushed into a freezing cold lake, its like a piercing kind of feeling that forces you to take a deep breath...its not just butterflies in ur stomach

2006-07-25 09:20:59 · answer #8 · answered by courtney n 1 · 0 0

If this person said he loves you, then trust your intuition. Ask yourself, does he love you? Or is he just saying that?
Give this person a chance. He may truly care for you, and if you have someone in your life who wants to be there for you, you are very lucky, don't take them for granted.

2006-07-25 09:06:03 · answer #9 · answered by patricia 1 · 0 0

*shrugs* That's for you to decide, based on your relationship with the guy...some guys will say it to get what they want, just as will some girls...

Generally though, love is mistaken for infatuation...but "I infat you" isn't all that romantic sounding...

If a guy tells you he loves you, reply with honesty how you feel (if you want to) or mile and hug or kiss him...you're not obligated to make a verbal response and definitely don't lie...

2006-07-25 09:07:10 · answer #10 · answered by . 7 · 0 0

i know that when i say that, i mean it. I dont play around when it comes to love

2006-07-25 09:04:40 · answer #11 · answered by theone 2 · 0 0

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