Ok, i need to know if writing a really long email to my ex boyfriend is lame...cuz u know i still love him and i want him back SO bad, but i feel that if i talk to him in person things wont come out right and i wont say the same stuff i would say in the email...the important stuff...please help...i really love him...!
2006-07-25 08:47:44 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Keep it short and sweet....i love you, i want you back, give me a chance to talk to you...
it works like a charm
2006-07-25 08:50:08 · answer #1 · answered by Mikey B. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why did you break up and who broke up with who?
if he cheated on you, you don't want him back or if he broke your heart
also alot of times when you send an email there are a lot of ways to interpret what you are saying. He may think you are showing different emotions. if anything but in person talk to him over the phone... your voice can show emotion better then an email so it will be more effective and you dont have to see how hes taking it.. even better is leaving a voicemail because he cant interrupt you... but like i said if he hurt you you dont need him back and you should just tell him to KISS YOUR *** <33
good luck
2006-07-25 08:55:04 · answer #2 · answered by lilshortsunshine2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Letters/emails are a great way to get thing communicated without the interruption of in person conversation. They allow you think, write, read and rethink before sending so get it all out, put in an email, make sure the grammar & spelling are good then send it off to let him know whats up!
2006-07-25 08:53:41 · answer #3 · answered by Just My Thoughts... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If writing a letter would help you get out your feelings, then by all means do it. I do suggest you handwrite it however, and mail it to him rather than send it by email. Ask at the end of the letter for him to call you or come see you (if its possible). Your idea isn't lame, its actually quite romantic. I wish you the best of luck.
2006-07-25 08:52:37 · answer #4 · answered by Flagstones925 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, its lame. He's your ex for a reason. If you email a really long email, it makes it look like you are desperate and/or needy. You don't want him to think that. You want him to think you are just fine. Men like the chase and eventual capture. Act as if nothing is wrong in your life when you are around him
2006-07-25 08:51:29 · answer #5 · answered by NavyBrat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write the email BUT save it as a draft, DO NOT SEND IT! Wait a few days and then re-read it and see if you fell the same way. You don't say who did the breaking up and why but if it was him don't send it at all. You'll look pathetic and feel that way too when he doesn't respond. Good Luck.
2006-07-25 08:55:46 · answer #6 · answered by kcrowleyk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion is to write that e-mail. Write everything you want to say - the good, bad, and ugly.
Then don't send it.
Keep it saved for a week. Read it over. Edit it. Then save it again.
Repeat this until you can look at it after a week in your saved documents and either do not want to edit it at all or decide you don't want to send it.
Why send something you'll regret in a week? This way, you'll have a week to wait and see if your words still sound right to you. It'll still be there if you decide you want to send it. Sometimes it's enough just to write it.
2006-07-25 08:51:13 · answer #7 · answered by Calindi15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all you can never beg a man to take u back a girl has to have some pride. Try being subtle drop hints that your still interested and if that doesn't work out just tell him how much u love him...but don't beg that'll make u seem desperate and easy
2006-07-25 08:51:39 · answer #8 · answered by kittykathunk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No see ur a women and if u chase a guy he keep running...leave him don't and move on.
That is not love ur feeling ur confused...what u want is some1 2 care for u love u and know he got ur back when ur alone.
He is not what ur eyes see ur blind...hes ur ex for a reason and remember that.
Don't fall for him that what he want but when he knows ur moving on he would love 2 have u back so u have 2 stand up 4 ur self and say no u ain't interested.
2006-07-25 08:54:12 · answer #9 · answered by *~`h!8@Q 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your best bet in this situation is to MOVE ON. Get on with it. Most importantly, start dating OTHER MEN IMMEDIATELY. Not in a Few days, and not next week. NOW. And, stop calling your ex. Stop responding to him quickly. Stop being his FRIEND. It's obvious that the LAST thing you want is to wind up "just being friends" with him... so STOP DOING IT. Next time he calls, tell him you have a date over at the house, or you're leaving to meet a Man. Of course, make sure IT'S TRUE, like I said. Stop being so AVAILABLE. Get busy enjoying your life. Get busy dating other Man.
2006-07-25 09:00:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and write everything you want to say to him. If he doesn't respond , at least you will not be wondering about what could had happened. Express yourself and if he feels the same way, there will be a favorable response.
Good luck!
2006-07-25 08:52:07 · answer #11 · answered by italian_princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋