This guy that i was in love with, cheated on me so i ended the whole relationship with him. Now he tells his best friend that the saying " You don't know what you have till its gone" is true for him. Now i reminese (can't spell that) on what we did and what we had and i miss it sooo much. Everytime i forgive him he does it agian. Should i stand my ground or give in agian?
2006-07-25 08:43:31 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How many times having your heart broken will be enough? He wants you because he thinks he can continue to have you and be able to cheat on you as well. Prove to him that you are better than that, and that you don't have to, won't have to wait around until he comes up with a suitable apology. You need to respect yourself enough that you won't let him get away with it anymore. The best way to show him is to get him out of your life, completely. You reminisce about the good times - when you think back about him, don't forget to think about all the pain and heartache that he causes you.
There are many, many great guys out there who will respect you and cherish you and not treat you like are worthy of disrespect. This guy has shown you his true colors, and don't believe that he will change - because you know how he is. Accept that and move on, without this poor excuse of a man.
Keep your chin up and keep walking. There is a better future out there for you with someone who will be exclusively yours. This guy is not it, he has shown you that repeatedly. Be brave and move toward that great future... it will be tough, but you can do it, and the reward will be happiness and the confidence that you will not have to settle for being second to anyone.
God bless and good luck.
2006-07-25 08:53:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves u he won't hurt u..trusted me fight back and stand ur ground u don't need this remember what he did 2 make u end the relationship.
Yea those days with him was great but what he did 2 u was worse leave him and don't waste ur beauty and time on him coz u have 2 show that u got a life of ur own and only u can control it.
2006-07-25 08:49:46 · answer #2 · answered by *~`h!8@Q 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know how many times i've told my boyfriend, "One more time and it's over"! But not once has it been over him cheating on me. That is so low, I absolutly think you did the right thing! Dont give in theres always someone better! I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years, to make it last forever you do not handle cheating, I will give it all up if he cheats one time! He's not worth it!
2006-07-25 08:53:24 · answer #3 · answered by ♥RN♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you deserve someone that is gonna treat you better then that!
You are worth so much more then to be cheated on over and over. Don't go back with him! I know it might be hard but It is better to feel this hurt for a little while than feeling hurt over and over for again for lord knows how long. Be strong and move on.............Hang in there! and Good luck!
2006-07-25 08:50:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you need to remember this: Once a cheater, always a cheater. That is so true. Of course he is going to miss you since you loved him so much and chances are he will keep calling you and asking you out. You need to find someone else to love who will appreciate you and treat you with respect.
There are so many good guys out there. Good luck!
2006-07-25 08:49:14 · answer #5 · answered by italian_princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone who doesn't respect your sense of Trust or your sense of People, doesn't deserve to have you in their life either.
He is a consumate Bad Boy. Bad news all the time for him. He likes to hurt others because that is how he feels himself inside. He will have pity parties with his friends and be just another *** most of the time again afterwards.
Drop him, immediately.
Move on with your life. There will always be people out there who genuinely care about you and your feelings and that will always put a smile on your face when you meet more people who do!
2006-07-25 08:48:04 · answer #6 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stand my ground because if he cheats once chances are he will do it again Besides there is better guys out there that you probably deserve So i would not give him another chance
2006-07-25 08:48:15 · answer #7 · answered by Jessica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stand your ground. It is more than likely that he will cheat again and it is just going to be a repeating cycle that will never end. You don't won't to live that way.
2006-07-25 08:46:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how hard it is to get over someone you love, but if he keeps hurting you like this, in the end it's not worth it. Try to find someone who will NEVER ever want to hurt you, someone who will be faithful and only want to be with you. You deserve and can do better! Good luck and God bless!! :)
2006-07-25 08:51:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand your ground if he cheated once he'll cheat again. Don't waste any more time with this jerk. The time wasted is time lost with someone who will truly love you
2006-07-25 08:47:03 · answer #10 · answered by miracle man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋