Why does he keep throwing it in my face?

Question

I cheated and told him about it then he forgave me. Now he keeps throwing it in my face. I don't think I can take much more of this.

Answer 1

interesting. if a person loves you enough to forgive you then they should love you enough to put it in the past...unless you keep doing it...but just to bring it up to hurt you is a sign that he does not want you to be happy. it's actually emotional abuse. I would first confront him and tell him what you did was a mistake and you would reverse it if you could bit it happened and it's in the past....and then tell him if he's not willing to really forgive you for it and put it to rest then the relationship is probably not going to work out. He may hold this grudge with him and it may lead to him cheating on you one day if he isnt completely honest with himself. If two people are really serious about each other then they would not go out of their way to hurt each other. Relationships are some of the biggest investments we get ourselves into.
Good Luck!

Answer 2

He's just trying to piss you off....especially if he keeps throwing it up in a heated conversation or argument....my advice is to tell him look you knew you were wrong and tellh im that you thought he forgave you also tell him to just drop it or next time you will leave him for good.....tell him that everyone makes mistakes and that you are sure he has made a good many (if you know any hes made bring them up in this conversation) if he gets pissed that you brought any of his up tell him thats what you feel when he throws what you did in your face....ask him how does he like it when you do that. Just tell him how you feel about it....if he keeps throwing it up it must mean he wants to piss you off and he doesnt love you and apparently he really did not forgive you...also tell him that when he said he forgave you he lied cause he keeps bringing it back up...tell him how would he feel if you throwed it in his face that he lied.....cause technically he did!! If he won't stop just drop him like it's hot and find another...I'm sure you learned your lesson.

Answer 3

Oh dear. Well, I don't condone your cheating, but he seems like a jerk for constantly throwing it in your face. I think he is throwing it in your face because

A, he's trying to distance himself so if you cheat on him again he won't get so hurt.

B, he's insecure.

You made him feel as if his man hood is inadequate for you.

I think you need to have a serious conversation with him about how he's feeling and how you're feeling.

Answer 4

sometimes when you really love a person and that person cheats on you its one of the worst feelings in life you may tell them that you forgive them but it will always be in your mind.what you can do is that every time he brings the subject up tell him that you love him and feel sorry but if he is just using this to abuse you mentally send him packing good luck .

Answer 5

Now that you have cheated,suffer the consequences......Shouldnt have done in on the first place....If you were my Girlfriend i would kick out of my life and simply move on...Whats the guareentee that you wont cheat on me again.

Answer 6

if it was the other way around you would throw it in his face ten times as much.
maybe the relashionship is permenately damaged.
next time think twice and never tell if you mess up again.

Answer 7

break up u don't want someone like this u either if u cheat and he's annoying maybe that means ur perfect

Answer 8

common problem.. at least you told him. where as you were wrong, he should not continue to talk about it... two wrongs do not make a right. you have come to terms that you were wrong and taken responisblity... if he can't see that... hate to say it but maybe he's not worth it.

Answer 9

Honey any one can say they forgive someone but in reality it's not the forgiving part that's hard it really is FORGETTING about it.

Answer 10

He has gas, he'll get over it.