What are some ways to give a girl an orgasim who has never had one before and is very hard to make c*um?

Question

I wonder this because I had an ex that usually never came with any guy and my entire time I only achieved the "promised land" three times. Now I have very special Girlfriend who says she is unsure if she has ever had an orgasm. We are in love and I have tried VERY hard to make her c*um with limited success. She admits she does not really know what an orgasm feels like and that she does love our sex. I really don’t know what it feels like for women either so I am really no help identifying what she should expect but I have not seen the "textbook" reactions you get when you give her an orgasm. I am sure to get some worthless answers but I would love to get some good advice that my active imagination has not already thought of.

Answer 1

I experience the same thing before i started having orgasms now. If she's into it and enjoying the sex then, their shouldn't be a problem, make sure you let her try to come before you, you should try to make it last long. She should feel before she reaches the max- of coming, a tingling feeling, of her clitoris rubbing against your penis as you go in and out. By you knowing she's coming is the pressure of her vagina griping your penis, that's when she is about to come. "SHE HAS TO BE INTO IT TO HAVE A ORGASM, NOT JUST LAYING THERE!!" If she doesn't come then, try oral sex make sure on this you stay down for a while also, and eating p***y its not just licking you got to suck on that clitoris that will make her come just keep licking and sucking, until you feel her jerk-up, but don't let go, she will feel the same feeling before she come and it will be the Best Feeling of Satisfaction!!!!! Good Luck
And Get To Work!

Answer 2

I think you should "explore" her. Find out what she likes, what gets her in the mood. Oral sex works only for certain women, and you really must be good at it. Some women need other kinds of stimulation for example, kissing (the neck, inner thighs, toes, breast) or touching. Try kissing her in different places and see her facial expression while you're doing it. Once you find out what she really likes then work on it. Same with intercourse, see her reactions while you’re doing it slow, deep, rough, etc... What ever you do, you must know her and what she likes. Sex toys do work but you run the risk of her liking the toy more than your sex. Make sure that she is completely satisfied with you before you introduce toys, otherwise I wouldn’t call it “you giving her an orgasm”.
If nothing works, you guys might just not be sexually compatible, it happens and there is nothing wrong with you/her.

Answer 3

For starters, I give you credit for wanting to please your partner.
As far as getting her to that big "O"...start by telling her you want to please her. Ask what she wants, and what she wants and needs from you. Much of our reactions to sexual stimuli start in the brain. Talking about a romantic experience you would like to have with her is a good place to begin. Visualization is also a major turn-on for many people: male and female. Talking about a physical encounter can often lead to one.Don't pressure her or yourself into thinking you HAVE to have an orgasm. Sometimes that pressure puts the breaks on.

Answer 4

Try oral sex as I have never had that fail to achieve an orgasm for a woman.

Answer 5

Trust me she would know if she has had one. Might I suggest getting her a toy to put on her cl!t, that would surely bring her to one. You might also find her G-spot and rub that with stimulating the cl!t

You might give her some privacy when you give her the toy and let her experiment with it first, (she might be shy)

I hope this has helped in some way

Answer 6

IF YOU ARE DOING ORAL SEX AND SHE GRABS THE BACK OF YOU HESD AND PULLS IT CLOSER TOWARD HER DONT MOVE THAT POSITION! HERE BREATHING WILL INCREASE AND SHELL START TO BUCK SLIGHTLY THEN SHE WILL START TO MOAN LOUDLY AND BREATH FASTER THEN SHE WILL LOCK HER LEGS AROUND YOUR NECK AND PULL ON YOU HEAD EVEN HARDER! THERE IS YOUR ORGASM ALL WET AND STICKY!!

Answer 7

its all about her clit.do lots of fore play before u start the real act of love making.i think she needs to have long warm ups before the act.share her sexual fantasy.ask her who is her fvt. celebrity.play redeo with her.
best of luck

Answer 8

I can't give you my secrets, but try fore playing slowly
with lots of tongue action.

Answer 9

Oral coppulation

Answer 10

try a vibrator.