do you think that a 14 year old is to old to have a baby ???My boy friend wants to have s.e.x. i do to but...?

Question

please help me im confused i know how to do it nice and gooood!!! o yeah and what does getting head mean.

Answer 1

I wasn't even thinking about sex at 14!!!! Geez, I am 22 now, I didn't lose my virginity unitl I was almost 19!!!! Then I still regreted the person I was with. I wish I would have waited for my husband....Because I didn't have anything to look forward to on our honeymoon...I have a sister who is your age and if she asked me about sex, I would kill the boy who put those thoughts in her head....I can't believe you think you are told OLD to have a baby....Wait until after high school and college...AND be married to a man who loves you and will support you. Because once you have sex, and have a baby you can't give it back because it is to much to handle. You have to deal with it!! Where are you parents, you shouldn't be alone with a boy at your age!!!! You need to talk to your mother, aunt, grandmother, or someone who is older....A gudiance counsler or someone. I have 3 sisters. 14, 16, 20 and they are my life, and I would never tell them to have sex before they are married out of junior high, high school and college, you should WAIT until you are married or at least with someone you love and who loves you.....Because you can't get your innocense back.....Don't listen when people say sex is great....it is great but only for a few moments or hours....But waiting IS worth it.....I hope this helps you....don't let that boy pressure you, if he wants it tell him to use his hands, if he does love you or care for you.....he will wait until you both are older....Good luck and God bless you.....

Answer 2

I know it's 2006 but I think "14" is definitely too young to be thinkingabout the "sex" word let alone thinking of becoming a mommy! If you're asking if "14" is old enough to have a baby , then I would bet that either you "are" pregnant or affraid of getting pregnant!If you are pregnant then you have a long road to go and I hope you're ready to deal with it! If you're "not" pregnant the answer is "wait", listen to people who have been there and see what has happened in their lives! I'm sure if they could go back and do it again they would tell you that they would have "waited" I know it's probably not the answer you're looking for but i'm a mom and i would tell my daughter the same thing if she we're your age. Only because I wouldn't want to see you ruin you're life and possibly the life of a little baby. Give it some "good" thought, PLEASE? If you think your grown up enough to have sex then be grown up and think about the consequences! Think about it! Somebody that cares!!!!

Answer 3

if u 14 and don't know what getting head means then u know u not ready 4 sex. and it's not just that, u only 14 that should be the last thing on Ur mind. believe me u can wait, it's just somethings in life that ain't never going anywhere like sex,no matter how old u get just remember sex will never get old

Answer 4

no you are not old enough for alot of reasons but let me tell you why first hand...babies at a young age equal no life for you...yes you will love your baby with all your heart but love does not buy diapers,pay rent or put food on the table..Only you can do that with a good education and a good head on your shoulders.. you should look into ways to protect yourself and live your teenage life ..you can never get that back especially not at three in th e morning with a screaming baby who could care less that you are tired..Being an adult is hard thankless work please dont rush into what you have the rest of your life to do

Answer 5

omg too old for a baby? more like too young thats crazy u should be focusing on school and becoming something major giving to the community and bettering yourself. GIVING HEAD IS WHEN U GET OR GIVE ORAL SEX.....u need not be thinking bout that **** this day and age u are crazy with aids and all ...please join the girl scouts or something

Answer 6

Wow. You should really hold off on the sex thing. Wait til you have things a little bit more figured out.

Answer 7

well NO a 14 yr is not enoguh mature to have a baby, babys cant have baby, i think that u r an inmature girl, and u are really not ready to have sex...judging cuz of ur other quiestions....

Answer 8

don't have sex wait espesially since u don't know what that means but just for eduction purpose getting head is getting a ******** and if u don't know what that is ur diffently too young

Answer 9

I AM 25 AND I I STARTED VERY YIUNG AND I AM NOT GOING TO SAY THAT IT WILL MAKE U A BETTER OR LESS OF A PERSON, BUT WITH EVERYTHING U DO THERE ARE CONSEQUENCES..AND HEAD IS ORAL AND U CAN GET STD'S FROM HEAD TOO..

Answer 10

DON'T HAVE A BABY!!! u r way to young......u need to use protection if u to screw eachother............and if u don't know what getting \ giving head means then u have no buisness having sex. got that???