I have recently met a very nice older lady the same age as me. Been round London several times, it is great she has an older persons free travel pass as well so don't have to pay the fare. She has asked me to go to europe with her on holiday. Am I expecting too much to hope I may get something more intimate as well?
2006-07-25 08:17:05 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Give it some time and you never know but I wouldn't be too forward with her just yet. She may just be enjoying your company for the moment and will soon give you signals if she's interested you in that way. If she's not then just have fun together and you never know one day you may become closer the more you spend time together. Good luck and have patience.
2006-07-25 08:29:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You can always hope, just don't put pressure on her, sounds like you guys have been on a planet a while, so you must have had some experience at reading women's body language. Saying that, she may just be looking for companionship, if you are going to be travelling together, maybe it would be an idea to speak about what footing this friendship lies on and take it from there?
2006-07-25 15:23:39 · answer #2 · answered by Tefi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No reason why you shouldn't hope for more! Just let her take the lead and hope for the best but expect the worse!
If she is good company then anything else is just a bonus. If she is not, but you are expecting more then don't go!
A thought! Why not ask if you are going to save money by sharing a room. Make it a joke - but see what her reaction is!
2006-07-25 16:26:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out what she is interested in now, or if your happy to travel with her just as a companion and find out after the trip if that's all she wants fine but talk to her she may be desperate for you to make a move and to shy to say anything more forward than a trip - you sound like your a generation and a bit above me your generation acts different but communication is the key - but the worst time to find out is in the middle of a trip cos neither of you can disappear in embarrassment - you might try something intimate now and decide its more fun just to travel as companions you'll never know till you ask
2006-07-25 15:38:39 · answer #4 · answered by mini prophet of fubar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on the holiday and see, you have nothing to loose.
If you feel the relationship has a possibility of intimacy, then there should be that level of trust between you, that you can ask her straight away what she expects from the relationship / what you expect.
2006-07-25 15:23:57 · answer #5 · answered by ANGEL-T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A gentleman wouldn't ask this question. Just enjoy the friendship. Don't expect anything, but appreciate all the nice things about your relationship whatever they are.
2006-07-25 15:24:34 · answer #6 · answered by mad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you checked with London Transport to see whether the bus pass is valid in Europe?
2006-07-25 19:42:12 · answer #7 · answered by Eden* 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends how long you have known her. if its only been a few weeks then its a bit much. My advice would be to hope for something, but not to push her.
2006-07-25 16:19:35 · answer #8 · answered by sara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what the rooming arrangements will be. If she wants one room with a king-sized bed and a jacuzzi, you needn't pack pajamas.
If it's two rooms, you're just friends.
2006-07-25 15:38:27 · answer #9 · answered by wmp55 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Expect? yes... but - You are an adult, she's an adult...and adults don't invite others to vacation with them unless they want a lil' somethin'. So, don't 'EXPECT' , simply 'Anticipate' ans see how it rolls. And bring Condoms just in case.
2006-07-25 15:32:37 · answer #10 · answered by palevox 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋