2006-07-25 08:16:46 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
before 25, we are idiots it seems we have to work equally hard for either...but sex has better short term pay off
at about 25 things change and you don't want to have to work on having sex...at that point you learn that if you work on romance then you get both sex and love for the same effort...who says we don't learn...
2006-07-25 08:23:51 · answer #1 · answered by Razor_Shock 3 · 6⤊ 3⤋
First of all don't use the word "ALL" so loosely or haste fully when making such a generalization like that, you may have alienated the male population you have not met yet, possibly ruining your chances with any man.
I don't know how old you are, I would guess late teens or early twenties. You have Time, plenty of it, enjoy it. Date men, and use your experiences as stepping stones, mental notes of what you DO NOT want in a man, and that will help you find what you do want in a man, and be ready to compromise, because You may find that he has other stronger qualities that you do like, and you could be missing out on some one special.
Last, don't look so hard, it's when your not looking that it happens. Trust me, I just about gave up 4 months ago, then when I wasn't even thinking about it, the best thing that ever happened walked into my life, now we are engaged, and very happy.
Best of luck, I hope I could help.
2006-07-25 15:29:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are talking about boys NOT men, boys just want to mount you.
Real men earn their right to sex by being capable of supporting a family, after they did all their "work" a real man will be looking for sex too. But he's already showed the love.
2006-07-25 15:20:40 · answer #3 · answered by ihavetobeme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its the way they are hardwired...no kidding, men may deny it, women may choose not to believe it but bottom line sex it the most important thing to a man, next in line...food, then a good bowel movement, then sports...sorry but thats the reality. think about it why are 99% of men pedophiles, and they are either doing or thinking about sex at least 10 x out of every minute, why are porn sites mostly geared towards men, why do women disfigure their bodies to attract men by added boobs and puffy lips...cause thats what is most important to men. the men who say thats not true and really believe it are as rare as hen's teeth
2006-07-25 15:21:27 · answer #4 · answered by hell_in_a_handbasket 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, it might be in our genes. We produce millions of sperm cells every day, while women produce an egg cell about every month (you know how that goes). So maybe there's a biological basis.
I'm not saying we don't experience real love, but we don't mind sex without love, in general. I'm just being honest.
2006-07-25 15:23:25 · answer #5 · answered by Carlitos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP LOOKING FOR THE SHALLOW HAL TYPE the pretty boys will always be out for the next conquest if you go for the guy that is so -so looking but sincere you will find real love but if your just out for the hunk type then your just as shallow as the guys just looking for sex....
2006-07-25 15:21:18 · answer #6 · answered by Unfrozen Caveman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's the question? there are plenty of men out there in loving relationships. i'm in 3 relationships where there's sex involved and i love all 3 of the girls.
2006-07-25 15:18:51 · answer #7 · answered by Cheesie M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is showing real love.
2006-07-25 15:18:27 · answer #8 · answered by handydaddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in love, once, but she left me for an older guy, me and here were 15, and he was 19. also, he looked a ton better than i do but they dated for about 1 month before he broke up with her, so she loved him more after 1 month of knowing him, vs know me for 2 years and dating me for 6 months. so now im more interested in sex, i tried to give a girl my love, but she didnt take it. love sucks unless it lasts
i love my guitar, i love my dog, and i love my right hand that keeps me company at night.
2006-07-25 15:21:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
men are crazy about having sex. so they forget about love.
2006-07-25 15:20:50 · answer #10 · answered by princess56304 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mam if men are only looking for sex then romeo,heer,majnu would not be a part of history.if any men wanna have sex then they can pay and have it anytime.you cant clap with one hand.you should withdraw ur comment and apologies. women are the one who provoke them.
2006-07-25 15:35:02 · answer #11 · answered by aguntuk02 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋