is havin sex when your 14 WITH PROTECTION a mistake? and why?
2006-07-25 08:14:55 · 23 answers · asked by Mely_Vet 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes! Than if the codom breaks u really mess up in some ways because you can come out with a baby that u can not take care of, your parents might just kick u out than where do u go the guy might not even stay with you.
2006-07-25 08:20:48 · answer #1 · answered by miltion b 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Yes i think 14 is way to young for sex. You need to live life and experience other things in it than sex. You start having sex that young and it can give you a reputation. Even if you are using protection things happen if it is a condom they can burst and there you go pregnant or STD or AIDS ready to be a mommy at 14 when your 34 that kid will be 20. I think young girls should respect them selves enough to wait till later. Young men now a days are so pushy and way to eager to have sex for a girl if your doing it at 14,15,16 your a slut but for a boy your just you know the man. I lost mine at 19 and still really wasn't sure if I was ready. It's about loving yourself enough to save that for someone really special in life. Some one you might see settling down with.
Virgins are more special in life now than someone with years of experience. Would you want a man with say 20 sex partners since he was 14.
2006-07-25 08:25:04 · answer #2 · answered by life as we know it 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Funny how things go, my 14 year old daughter came to me and was questioning the pro and cons of sex. As I told her enjoy your life and give it time. Never rush into something because you feel like the "click" isn't going to approve, every decision you make has consequences. So even if your using protection, your worth so much more. Wait until you have grown and developed skills to conquer all the emotions that develop with sexual involvement.
2006-07-25 08:29:21 · answer #3 · answered by ~Jessica~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya know most ppl will say yes, but im like this, if u think ur ready n ur usin protection everytime, n not doin it with everyone just to be doin it then that is what is best for u. now most ppl will say ur virginity is all u have but i say ur reputation is all u have to worry about n how u take care of urself. if u r self medicating with sex to feel wanted or popular or bc u are hurt that isnt a good thing. but if its with ur mate that u think u love then hey no harm done. protection always should be used as well not only condoms but spermacide inserts as well for a back up plan. bein a mom or dad at that age isnt what u want .
2006-07-25 08:21:44 · answer #4 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe it's totally wrong... having sex with someone u love is something really special and beautiful.. in the age of 14 u will miss a lot of it... u r not given urself a chance to experience some great feelings with someone who deserves it... i say that the right age is 18+ when u first decide to give urself to someone... make sure that that person deserves it..coz u r giving away smth really precious...
i would recomend to wait until u meet the love of ur life... (the one u ll get married)... if some people can do that... that would be really awesome... otherwise, when u give urself...dont do it coz smn is hot and handsome...but b/coz u really love that person and that person loves u back....
Dont go for it u r really young for it.. u can stay in the kissing part... but think that every kiss u give is special... and dont just give them away like that... :o)
i hope u ll think about it a little bit....
Take care and God might be with u to protect u...
2006-07-25 08:25:52 · answer #5 · answered by IdoCare 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Big mistake !!! At 14 you have crushes, not lasting love. Sex is to be experienced between two people who are mature enough to know the consequences of their actions. At 14 you are more concerned with 'cute guys', and flirting.....with danger. At least you used protection....I hope.
2006-07-25 08:22:17 · answer #6 · answered by parkmaven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say so. when you are 14 I believe you are too young for sex, I think you should be old enough to take care for a child even if you don't plan on having one. there are other reasons for waiting, for one thing what if the condom you use for some reason does not work and you end up getting pregnant or even worse aids. besides you might just want to save it for some one who loves you and you love. .
2006-07-25 08:23:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mistake, hmm, no. I don't think it is. If you are emotionally, physically, and financially to take care of the consequences of you're actions, then no. When you are younger and have sex you are more likely to get you're heart broken because usually no relationship lasts from you're teens to adulthood. Make sure the guy you lose it to is the one you really want to look back on and think about.
2006-07-25 08:20:15 · answer #8 · answered by Sam I Am 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take this from me what aleast 2 more years I started having sex when i was twelve and it could have screwed up my life but now that i am older and have a great girl i am having the time of my life but if ur going to anyway at least use protection if u need to talk to someone with that kinda of experince joshpickettdragon@yahoo.com
2006-07-25 08:21:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't no if it is a mistake.. If you wanna have sex with the person then go for it atleast you are using protection
2006-07-25 08:18:04 · answer #10 · answered by Meriah C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋