after a week of daily 3-6h chat, he says ttys and disappears. Never heard of him for 3 days. It's not quite of a relationship, but still I'd like to know if I should wait for an answer and hope for more or give up. (we only use the mess to talk as we are far from each other). If I see him on, should I messg him or leave him alone?
2006-07-25 08:08:52 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When he doesn't want to talk to you
2006-07-25 08:17:02 · answer #1 · answered by cal-p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let it go.Try next time not 2 get yur emotions worked up on cyber world. U r better than that
just try 2 keep it cordial or simple. if u began feelings fast They will all play with yur mind than think u r kinda crazy 2 fall into ceriosness like that.Even if it seem they was only talkin 2 u for a period of time. Just let him go.Dont let chatting relationships get 2 yur mind
2006-07-25 15:14:17 · answer #2 · answered by VooDooQueenWitch Docter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
those internet relationships never work unless someone is willing to commit to moving closer to the other.that is going to be a life changing experience for either party.why can't you just be friends and continue to chat with each other.and little do you know that this guy your talking about has a life off the computer.one that is probably not what you were told.a good example is my 65 year old mother,pretends that she is my 32 year old sister,and posts her picture and everything go figure.
2006-07-25 15:17:48 · answer #3 · answered by curtismarsch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act like you do not need him. The main thing is not to seem desperate!!!! Men hate that more than anything. When you see him on his computer, do not write to him and wait for him to write to you first. If he doesn't, then just log-off and that's that. Just go on living your life. Do not obsess over this guy. Be just a little smarter than he thinks he is.
Good luck and power to you!!!
2006-07-25 15:15:28 · answer #4 · answered by italian_princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone hun,he knows where you are,when he needs to find you. If he isnt takein any intrest in you,maybe things are comming to an end. but if he has gone for three days at a time,do you really trust him. there plenty fist in the sea hun,just keep looking,you sound young
2006-07-25 15:12:25 · answer #5 · answered by lovableleachy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, iguess you should just leave him alone and dont get invovled in any kinda thing with this guy,b/c hes too buusy with his issues....
and i dont think that he feels the same as you.there does'nt exist any wuestion of end or start when u know for a fct that there was never was anything between you guys......so just take it easy and move on!!
2006-07-25 15:17:38 · answer #6 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can tell when he dosent seem as excited to talk to u or when he juz says its over and if he never calls he just chats u need a real man to really talk to u and make you fell good. and then wait 4 him to talk to you caz u can find another man better than him to treat u right if he dont wanna talk u dont wanna listen
2006-07-25 15:13:45 · answer #7 · answered by babygurl4life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont waste your time with him and if he does happen to mess you back go im sorry i didnt even realize you were on im too busy i have too many people to talk to on here and so little time ohh lordy time flies when your having fun ohh yea im sorry did you need something?Act like you dont care and no i wouldnt instant mess him if i seen him cause he knows you will thats why he dont bother.Show him this time your not and two can play this game .
2006-07-25 15:13:43 · answer #8 · answered by blondie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just leave him alone. it so hard to hope you know. but if you really want him, then wait. but if it will only cause you pain then go on with your life. you can still find someone out there.
2006-07-25 15:12:23 · answer #9 · answered by dimension 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nahhh dont send
delete him but not block
in the mean time find some other guy to chat with....if he will send u something u will still recive it... if not hes deleted and u will probably forget him as the time passes by
take care ;)
2006-07-25 15:13:23 · answer #10 · answered by Fisherman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone. I wish I could do it all over again - I would leave a lot of them alone instead of keep on chasing them.
2006-07-25 15:12:56 · answer #11 · answered by susansjobs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋