I have met this wonderful man that I am in love with. I hate to be away from him, I think about him all the time and this last friday he proposed, I said yes. Now my question is, I am moving in with him in a couple of weeks and I am I guess I am having cold feet? I know I want to marry him and everything, I am just very servous about this.
Do you think it is more than cold feet?
2006-07-25 07:50:26 · 10 answers · asked by sweet_n_sassy2204 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You prolly just have TONS of what-Ifs running through your head and you are being overly cautious. What exactly are you nervous about? Actually living with him? Just take a step back and draw it out so you can physically look at the good and the bad..and talk to him about it..I'M sure he is feeling the same way...and if he's not..then he is a very brave man. Its a huge step, but you will get over it, and conquer your fear.
2006-07-25 07:55:08 · answer #1 · answered by Bevin M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I think all it is is a bad case of cold feet. You still love this man, and want to be married to him. You're just extremely nervous because this is a life-altering decision that you've made, is all. Don't worry, things will be fine. Go on with your life, get married, and be happy with your new fiance!
2006-07-25 14:54:36 · answer #2 · answered by Maico 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal to feel this way when you are taking such an important step in your life. You should just talk to him about it and if he truly loves you as much as you love him (and it sounds like you are crazy about him), then he will understand why you feel this way and convince you that you are doing the right thing and there is nothing to be scared of. Love is wonderful and if you found someone to share it with, don't let him go.
Besides, chances are that he is feeling the same way. My best wishes to you both!!!
2006-07-25 15:10:33 · answer #3 · answered by italian_princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was very much the same way when I got married. I loved my fiance but was so worried about how things would change and I'd lose my independence. Luckily I had enough misgivings, that they never came to pass. I realized it was pretty nice to have someone around all the time.
2006-07-25 14:53:30 · answer #4 · answered by Ricky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can answer. If you feel strong about him then probably it's cold feet (sometimes it's hard to let go of how you were living your life. Especially if you been living the same way for many years.
2006-07-25 14:56:18 · answer #5 · answered by emplifeon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Subconsciously you know it is morally wrong to have pre marital sex and to live in with a man you are not married to.What is the rush.Are you in a hurry to cook for him,do his laundry,pick up after him and handle his idiosyncrasies
2006-07-25 14:59:57 · answer #6 · answered by Elizabeth 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, just cold feet. Relax.
2006-07-25 14:53:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you've got the one you loved so just take it easy and enjoy every bit fo it,dont you think so?
theres nothing to be nervous about,you gonna be with the one you love!!
2006-07-25 14:55:03 · answer #8 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are just nervous thats all just relax ..
2006-07-25 14:53:45 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i think ur just nervous... itll all be fine just go with the flow.
2006-07-25 14:53:05 · answer #10 · answered by Velvet Rain Drops 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋